Which type of women are attracted to bad boys and players and how can I tell if I am dating a good woman?

[DenizLikesTennis]

[WonderBell99]

Usually, naive and inexperienced women get tricked by playboys. Naive ones are probably immature and they’re an easier target for these bad boys. They would easing fall for their charms.

Even then, this naive woman can also be a good woman. Just because she fell for one bad man, does not automatically make her a bad woman.

How can you tell if you’re dating a good woman? Well, what is your definition of “good”? Different people have different expectations when it comes to finding a partner. If you find a woman who can empathize with your feelings, smart, kind, loyal, trustworthy and puts effort into your relationship, then I would probably define her as a “good” woman.

There are plenty of good women out there. Women are mostly the same as men when it comes to what they want in a partner - *most* just want a decent person who would love and accept them for who they are.

[DenizLikesTennis]

I like your answers! You know, I am very honest and I asked this question because I was actually dealing with a woman who I thought she was the one but it turned out that she lost interest/attraction because of small mistakes such as being awkward.

So therefore I'd agree with your points of a good woman. Plus she doesn't give up on someone so easily even he made small mistakes and is communicative.

Time revealed that she wasn't. I don't like being labeled over small things.

Wish you the best:)

[DenizLikesTennis]

I am actually thankful for this experience because I have learned one more thing to watch for, standards etc.

[WonderBell99]

I wouldn’t view being awkward as a “mistake”. If any of your potential live interests view that as a red flag or a mistake, you should seriously reconsider if that’s really the type of person you want to go out with. Confidence does not grow on trees. Some people may have social anxiety or may just be shy.

I believe you’ve told me about her. Is this the same lady you told me about? If you feel like she is not a good fit for you, it’s best you move on from her. This woman seems rather shallow and superficial.

[WonderBell99]

It is good to have boundaries and standards, of course.

[WonderBell99]

love interests*

[DenizLikesTennis]

Yes she is the same one I have told you about. I'd agree that she is superficial and shallow. I could tell this because she'd put lots of effort on her looks, dress differently (flashy) day by day, overanalyze every single movement/detail I'd do subconsciously which would result in turn off.

Long story short: With her, I felt like doing certain things, talk differently so everything was under control. Therefore, I have wished her best of luck and moved on. Because I'd rather be authentic and be myself. Means we are not a right match

[DenizLikesTennis]

And also she'd observe whom I was associated with in other words whom I hung out with during the break, then would give me a suspicious look. That'd be also superficial/shallow. So there was no communication but lots of lots of signals like an antenna or computer.

I'd initiate small talks but received dry answers, then mysteriously, she'd stare/look at me often instead to communicate/leading the conversation

[Zolly99999]

Be careful of those women who go for bad boys. 9 out if 10 times they will cheat on you with one.

[Avicenna]

You know pretty quickly if you're dating a good woman.