How do I know if I’m good looking for a girl?

[Anonymous]

A know a girl and she’s so beautiful like perfection and seems nice from what I’ve seen. But I need to know if I’m good enough.

How do I know? I need to be realistic

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+1 y

I don’t want to embarrass myself for nothing

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, I feel you on wanting to be realistic. But the best thing is to just be confident in yourself man!

As for telling if you're "good enough" looks-wise, it's not really about comparing appearances. Mattering most is how you make a girl feel - if you're fun, respectful, a good listener.

Beauty is subjective anyway. What really attracts someone is charm, humor, passion. If you see her again, just chill and be your natural self. Smile, ask questions to understand her better.

Don't put pressure on deciding if she's a "10" first glance. let things unfold and see if you vibe. If you joke and make her smile, that's a great sign!

You'll never know til you take a shot my bro. Don't hype it up too much in your head beforehand either. Relax and follow your gut - I bet she'll notice how dope you are.

You got this! Play it cool, be respectful and seem interested in her as a person. That'll show way more than any look ever could.

[jennifer_bloom]

Most girls care about personality and not just looks and usually they will sacrifice looks for money.

[Asker]

I might be rich but don’t have that written on my forehead

[Asker]

I also dress like a normal dude. I don’t want no goldigger I want a real girl

[Fanfare690]

If she shows you attraction back. Always looking at you... flirting... touching

[Asker]

Looking at me yes. But not really been close enough to her for flirting and touching in particular

[Fanfare690]

Srart talking to her and fllirt

[MairimBP]

Tbh if you're funny and good vibes actually the face doesn't count that much. I'm talking from experience. Sometimes i don't find a guy attractive but then he's always there for me, making me laugh and I usually go for it !

[Asker]

But attraction is important so I don’t get it

[MairimBP]

Yes but you can get attracted emotionally I don't know how to explain it but if you like to be around that person you kinda forget about his physique. And even start to find the person attractive in its own way. See what I mean?

[Asker]

I do actually.

But with my experiences it’s like god wants me to be single

[Anonymous]

How do u both look

[Asker]

How can you describe that

[Opinion Owner]

Like height weight , features? Why do u feel not enough

[Asker]

On paper my features sound great. Aside from the fact I’m Indian. Which is my point, I can be tall and in shape but it’s still not enough

[Opinion Owner]

How does she look? What are your precise heights? Weight?

[Asker]

6’1 and 72kg. She’s also blonde and really pretty.

[Opinion Owner]

What’s her weight , height? Describe

[Opinion Owner]

72 kg for a 6,1 guy sounds fake as hell. U are definitely short af

[Asker]

Nah you just sound like you have nothing going for you