How long do you usually wait until you ask someone out?

[Horse-girl]

Is it days, weeks, months from when you realise you like someone?

[Ευδεμονια]

I don’t have so big experience in asking people out… I did only three times.
First time, she was a friend and I waited a month;
Second time, she was my best friend and schoolmate, I waited almost one year.. because I had fear to ruin or friendship (and this happened);
Third time, she was a foreign student I knew via a dating app, we chatted for two weeks and then I asked her out, in order to know better each other.

[Jacobbbb]

Just depends sometimes you'll have a good friendship with someone going and you don't wanna ruin that, so you'll wait as long as possible until the moment is right 😂 (maybe after a month or longer)

Or just crush on them forever and never act on those feelings 😭

[PinkCloud7]

I mostly do online dating, so I talk to the guy for a few days, see if there is consistent effort and solid back and forth. If it feels good, either he askes me out within a week, or I suggest he that he ask me out 😋.

[ChrisMaster69]

It can be bloody ages lol.

or usually they get fed up and ask me out.

I’ve done it straight off in a coffee shop, bar etc and asked a girl out or rather asked her and mates out as it was easier.

Other times I’ve just not really rushed it lol

[iSlipKnot]

If we met on an app and she seems interesting, I might ask within that first week. The odds that she'll say no are pretty low, since we matched and probably live close by. If it's someone I met in person, I ask the same day after some chatting.

[Guy__]

I don't care about all the mind games, or worrying about how others will perceive me. As soon as I choose to, or all necessary boxes are checked.

[VistasV2]

When I feel like they reciprocate my advances. So if I’m flirting and they come back heavier then I know

[Ironic_Method]

Quickly if I like them... but I don't like many people.

[Pejtu]

Days probably

Few days is fair enaugh

[Preprefrontalis]

It is opeen 7/24 i dont wait but if she write about that we can go

[boobliker]

when I think I like them some times it the first moment i see them or talk to them on the phone

[Anonymous]

Till judgement day. If she thinks I'm going to ask her out she might as well take a seat because she's going to be waiting a while. Lol

[NYlatefun]

I try to act fast, otherwise you lose the window

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

As soon as possible.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I have already lost my first interest due to not being able to talk to her regarding this.
Never again. Its for my own good, rather than regretting and guessing her response.

[Horse-girl]

Well at least you've learnt what to do for next time.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Yupp. In fact already asked a girl in 12th standard because of my 10th standard first crush.
But unluckily, that one crashed and burned.
Now I only focus on making female friends.

[Wise4myage]

A few weeks, don’t wanna look desperate.

[Debbie14217]

few months till i get to know them

[HandsomeAndBald]

why is your name horse girl

[Horse-girl]

Because I like horses and couldn't think of a username.

[HandsomeAndBald]

are you tall?

[Horse-girl]

Not really, I'm 5.3

[Jamie05rhs]

A minimum of 10 years. Usually 20 years, though.