I'm a 39 year old single mother. I'm not a fan of commitment. I had a friends with benefits for 4 years who was 24 years old and he was great in bed but he lacked other things so I let him go. I began talking to another young guy who was keen on seeing me when I was unfortunately unavailable. He text me the other night, he wanted to see me and I said I couldn't so the next night I text him to come see me and he read my message and didn't respond. I feel that he really didn't have the confidence. I have deleted him now from my snapchat account.. He said he always wanted to get with a MILF but didn't show much confidence though. Not sure what happened. I complimented him the night before, told him I was attracted to his communication, that he was considerate and respectful and he didn't respond. Not sure if he just didn't understand the compliment... I go for younger guys because I know they won't commit and it's less drama for me. Not sure why he couldn't say he was busy...
You've shown disinterest twice, now all of the sudden showing it, like if it was you, he's confused and might think you're playing games. And then deleted him immediately, suggesting otherwise again. Would you not be confused? Think he was playing you if it were reversed?
But fwbs and/or casual relationships, it sounds like you expect more that most in those situations. It's usually only about sex, and you said "the sex was good, but lacked other things" lol. Maybe you're expecting too much for these (especially with younger guys).
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You need an experienced younger stud like me.
Getting MILFs and Cougars is like shooting fish into a barrel for me, especially when I am in California for certain amounts of time.
If you're on the West Coast, let me raise the bar for you
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"He was great in bed but lacked other things so I let him go."
Lady, you are insatiable. You claim to just want people to hop into bed with since you don't want commitment. And the guy you were fucking for years gave you the bed action you wanted, but when that wasn't enough. You need to look inward and figure out what you NEED.If you want young men for casual flings you will learn they will take the chance if possible
Shit happens, I'm not sure what you are asking here if it's even a question
Most young guys will not commit with a milf. They will only sleep with milfs
Go get it Grandma ;-)
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