What is a polite way to reject someone under the following scenareos, so that they won't feel hurt?

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. After immediately meeting them and finding that what you can see of their face/body is not attractive to you.
2. After talking to them, and not finding enough mental compatibility.
3. After seeing them naked, and liking their mind but not their body.

[Juxtapose]

1. Unless there is a severe lack of attraction I would still give them a shot. If I rejected them I would be honest.

2. I would tell them we have a mental compatibility issue.

3. If she's naked then I like her enough that I'm going to accept her. I'm not really picky with how people look man, as long as you can get my dick hard I'm game.

[TheSpaceGnome]

For 1 i'm very picky, its rare I see someone I'm physically attracted to, even in porn, let alone real life.

For 2 thats pretty much what I do.

For 3. Nah, if she isn't stunning, I'm not staying hard long enough to do anything, I'd reject her and go find someone else I'd be happy with.

[DizzyDesii]

#1

#2

I realize we’re on two different levels in life.

#3

I thought I was ready but I’m just not ready for us to have sex yet.

[TheSpaceGnome]

what is a way for 1 and 3 that doesn't involve lies?

[DizzyDesii]

3 was not a lie lmao. As for 1, “Damn some girl is gonna be lucky to have you.” If he dont get the hint that that ain't gone be me then 🤷‍♀️

[TheSpaceGnome]

1 and 3 would be a lie for me, I don't have a girlfriend, and I am ready for sex, but not with someone I'm not attracted to (be it mentally or physically).

For 1 I usually just say "not interested".

[TheSpaceGnome]

3 is just a panic inducer.

[DizzyDesii]

Well 3 is not a lie because i likely still wouldn't be ready to sex them just yet even if they were hot

[TheSpaceGnome]

3 assumes i've known them for a few years.