On behalf of all girls, I’m sorry for all the good guys out there who can’t get a girlfriend because of girls terrible dating habits. Stay strong ok?

[CuteExplorer499]

[ohsheeT]

I thank you so much for this question and it made me smile and it tells me you have a very beautiful heart you don't have to be sorry about anything I mean I would love to be dating right now but I'm not and I think it's because it's my choice even though I want to date somebody I still think it's my choice of not putting myself out there cuz usually if I want a girlfriend I can get a girlfriend but I haven't even put myself out there maybe I'm waiting for her to pick up on me I'm not sure but anyway thank you for this it just tells me you have a very beautiful heart and you're good person

[HighlyQuestionable]

Thank You CuteExplorer499,

You have no idea how difficult it is, I am 42 and never had any interest from Girls/Women. This despite not being hideous, having a very high IQ, and being willing to sacrifice for a person that I love.

Any insight into what Women are looking for would always be helpful.

[CuteExplorer499]

Show the girls how much of a gentleman you are, and I know it may be difficult but maybe try seeking girls from other countries as well as non white women are usually much less picky.

[HighlyQuestionable]

Thank You for your insight. It's very curious what you said. I tend toward women of other cultures, especially Northern Africa and Southern Asia.
What do you personally look for in a potential partner? (not flirting, just curious)

[CuteExplorer499]

Someone who wants a real relationship and wants to commit to having a family with me. Any form of physical abuse and I immediately call it off, that’s the main thing. Other women may be more forgiving but not me. Just be a good soul.

[HighlyQuestionable]

You deserve all that you want and more. I am horrified that physical abuse between partners still happens in this day. Noone should ever tolerate this kind of abuse. Thank You

[MCheetah]

Assuming you're not being sarcastic, thank you.

I could never find a partner cause I'm too damn short and not willing to bribe a woman into "liking" me (nor could I afford it). That's why I don't date anymore. Women ask for too much and aren't willing to give back anything in return anymore, not even affection or respect at times.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, I appreciate the sentiment, but you're only responsible for your own actions; don't take on the burdens of other people being awful- it's not like you TOLD them to (unless you did, in which case, yeah, apologizing makes sense). And don't forget that it's not one-way; it's not like there aren't scummy guys out there, too.

[Anonymous]

Nah. Ya’ll lost me after years of putting up with bullshit in abusive relationships and shitty date after shitty date.

Besides, every one of my guy friends have already gone through at least one divorce and those that haven’t feel trapped and alone in loveless marriages.

[CuteExplorer499]

Fair enough. I know many men are going through depression for a reason.

[pizzalovershouse]

It's not your fault todays socitey prefers more hookups than true relationships an yes I've had girlfriends of different races black Indian older by 20 years an as young as 19 an had some cruel exs one burnt me with hot wax on nipple said oh uts just warm an got off on giving me pain

[Lionman95]

I just say thank you and take that as an encouragement to work on myself to make my trueself more obvious for girls.

[Guy13]

Aren't you remarkable cute and obviously full of intelligence and depth. You must be married !!

[TheSpaceGnome]

Any chance you have advice for finding one who likes difficult video games, drawing, science, dinosaurs, aliens, bugs, sci-fi, fantasy, and cartoons/anime?

I can't seem to find one near my age in the US thats not already taken._.

[SenseiSeptred]

I know that I am not a female, but I probably would have gone for you if I was.

[TheSpaceGnome]

@SenseiSeptred Noted, but not useful (since I'm straight and you are indeed not female).

[CuteExplorer499]

You’ll find one don’t worry!

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm plenty worried, I've been searching for like 20 years, these women make it damn near impossible to find them.

[Anonymous]

It's all good. At some point we just learn to love the single life. 🙂

It's ALWAYS better to be alone for the right reasons the with someone for the WRONG ones.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for posting that sentiment though. It's appreciated.

[Shamalien]

i appreciate this. And on behalf of all the men who play women for sex, not that I do that but I am on team penis, sorry, they are just brainwashed to think they should act like that, don’t let em take advantage of you

[Chazmatazz269]

That’s a wonderful sentiment but a lousy question. Ell oh ell!

[dolemite89]

call out girls for their bad behavior don’t just hand waive and tell guys to be strong 🤣 that’s like saying there’s a leak and telling people to grab some buckets instead of just fixing the leak.

[FilmGuy93]

Thank you lol I'm sure we men contribute an awful lot to the shitshow too, but women have some pretty bad habits.

[Juxtapose]

All I would really ask from you women at this point is to let me know if you're into me. My ass is too autistic to decipher hints.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Autism or not. No one can be expected to deciper extremely vague hints.

[CuteExplorer499]

Tell me about yourself?

[Juxtapose]

Can you be more specific?

[Snakeyes7]

If you are being the change you want to see then you have nothing to be sorry for. You are an individual and are not in control of the actions of others.

[ElementoP]

It's ok baby girl I forgive you

Oh you said good guys, nevermind

[LimitedBenefits101]

Notice how feminist will call you "pick me" when you say something against your own gender, HILARIOUS.

[SenseiSeptred]

This is one big reason why I do polyamory between both genders even as a guy

[MangoBob]

I’ll stay home and screw my $7,000 RealDoll, she doesn’t have issues.

[Marshymallow]

Lol what in the pick me energy is this… 💀

[CuteExplorer499]

Just spreading positive energy around 😊

[Still-alive]

hahaha pick me pick me

[Sixgunsound]

I’d pick her if I was still in the market. Reflection and introspection are far too rare of abilities these days, and speak to a much more mature attitude and outlook on life and love than most girls who dismissively label someone a pick me. Not saying that’s you personally, but the trend is definitely empirically observable.

[CuteExplorer499]

@Sixgunsound you can see some of the attitudes I’m getting from some of the guys here, it’s as if they’re used to other girls being horrible to them and naturally they have an annoyance to my gender. Good girls exist right?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Marshymallow. It's better than cunt energy.

[Sixgunsound]

They probably are used to it, from what I’ve gathered the dating scene today is a mess. That is why you are so impressive because you are different in a good way that is worth a man’s time to get to know better and emotionally invest in from the little bit I’ve seen.

[20yearsolder]

Thank you for your kind words

[Iron_Man]

I have a great girl

[HonestAssholeJ]

Do not want to date so it is fine.

[Zolly99999]

@cuteexplorer499 you rock !!

[Ironic_Method]

That works both ways!

[legalboxers]

I gave up to be honest

[CuteExplorer499]

Don’t give up! You need to keep sending messages around and just ignore the superficial girls.

[ChiTown33]

No, he really doesn't. Lol

[legalboxers]

@ChiTown33 actually I did.. :) sick of the drama and bullshit

[ChiTown33]

That's exactly what I'm saying man. 🙂
Men need to KNOW thier value. And only "send messages" if she shows her worthiness of that. Be friendly, be polite, be a good human being. But KNOW that your attention ALSO comes with a cost.

[Anonymous]

Take your pity elsewhere vermin

[Dinosaursandanime65]

No maidens?

[panamared1]

You are fine