Guys what are some reasons a girl is NOT good enough for you?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

It all depends on the person. None of these points really kills it on it's own. But they tend to stack up and become excuses to stop trying.
1. Close-minded:
She can't think outside the box, is unwilling to see any other perspective than her own or is otherwise not at all self-aware (or is unbelieveably biased).
2. Lazy:
Not motivated at all, just want to sit on their ass all day and be served.
3. Gossiper:
Is a massive shit-talker always talking low about others.
4. Too paranoid:
Looking for the worst cases 24/7 and believing in the conclusions baselessly.
5. Obese:
Naturally, I am not attracted to that and it's hard convincing me to look past it.
6. Boring:
No humor what so ever.
7. Unable to be Direct:
Always playing games with half-truths, awnsering with sarcasm or irony all the time. I'm okay with sarcasm and irony but before I know them well it can be hard to tell their meaning. If we'll never speak plainly I probably can't tolerate your presence for long.
8. Attitude:
Sometimes the attitude is just too strong. Attitude is okay in moderation but some self-distance is good.

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

lack of personal care
unintelligent
self absorbed
disloyal
liar
cares only about her looks
does not contribute to the mutual "household"
no form of work ethic
judgmental
rude to others (think the girls from "mean girls" type of mentality)
shop-aholic
sponges off others
drugs/drinking all the time/"party girl" (yes weed counts)
steals/cleptomania
overly gossipy (we all gossip sonewhat mind you, but going overboard with it sucks)
disrespectful
does not embrace differences between us/expects us to do every little thing together
snobby
entiltled
comes across as a gold digger (i get needing to know your partner is finacially capable/secure but dont go right for that at the beggining of dating/give it a few dates before asking please)
being completely "wakadoo" (we all are a little crazy to an extent/at times but no need for tinfoil hats and the like on the daily)
overly clingy

i think that should give a good idea incase i missed something

Trixie4President · Accepted Answer

Or on the flip side what would the characteristics and the woman be that would make you feel as if you won the lottery and possibly you're not worthy cuz she's so amazing

FictionalCharacter · Accepted Answer

Guys do not like girls like these:

Anonymous · Answer

If she has higher standards for men then she has for herself. This is especially true when it comes to emotional stability. Some women think they are entitled to a “sass pass” but quickly get turned off if a guy shows emotional vulnerability especially insecurity. Yes men should be generally more emotionally stoic then women. But female’s have very low romantic tolerance for men who act this way more than vice versa. They friendzone men who act the way they “say” they like.

Also this new generation of extremely prejudice SJWs and feminists just gives me a gag reflex.

Ironically they are usually the biggest hypocrites in the world because they secretly lust for domineering and abusive assholes more than politically moderate women do.

You will see them fall for an abusive asshole, get predictably screwed over and blame “patriarchy” instead of taking self accountability. Either that they will take some doormat and constantly cheat on him. This also goes for the real fat and ugly SJWs. They can’t take self responsibility for their own health but instead blame men for not being attracted to them.

MCheetah · Answer

She's a feminist or woke (man-hating and extremely stupid).
She's a lesbian and doesn't truly like men ("bisexual").
She's not an actual woman (transwomen).
She's verbally or physically abusive.
She's shallow or superficial.
She's a gold digger or sugar baby.
She's a cheater, liar, or manipulator.
She's rude, cruel, or evil.
She's stupid, closed-minded.
She's lazy, spoiled, or entitled.
She's narcissistic, superficial, or vain.
She's a drug user, smoker, or addict.

raw_is_war99 · Answer

She's lazy, she does drugs/drinks/parties, she's a liar, she's had a history of cheating and sleeping around. Now yes, I understand people can change but those will be my reasons. If a guy believes a girl is perfect based on her looks then he has removed communication, a good heart, morals/ethics and education. I'm not saying an attractive girl can't have those qualities but usually guys who pursue a girl's looks alone are usually guys looking for one night stands. But if those same guys have any desire to get married, even he will have expectations in a girl like the one's i've mentioned above.

Browneye57 · Answer

She isn't DTF. Some will even admit they don't even like sex. Many don't even know what an orgasm is.
She only thinks about herself.
She posts selfies on SM.
She's frivolous.
She thinks women are better than men, more deserving, special, superior.
She doesn't consider what her man needs or wants - it's all about her, what she can get, what she deserves.
She thinks she's some kind of princess.

She thinks she's entitled to whatever the world can give her - respect, success, glamour, whatever. No, you deserve nothing - you get what you get for the work and effort you put in, just like everybody else.

Most women are not good enough. That's why we date. A LOT. We burn through these bimbos trying to find one worthwhile. It only takes one, but you have to wade through a shit-ton of them to find one.

The-Wise-Phoenix · Answer

If she smokes

If she can't complete a sentence without swearing.

If she has pink or purple hair.

If she has had a bad relationship with her father.

If she is a crazy party girl whose idea of fun is to get piss drunk ever weekend.

If she smokes.
I know I said that already but I absolutely detest smoking.

RawIronhide · Answer

It's not a matter of being "good enough" but I do expect a certain level of decency from a potential partner. things that might be a reason for me to walk away are things like acting like you're needs are more important than mine or if you hang around a degenerate group of people.

JoVee · Answer

barring a lot of the common tropes of being uninteresting (beauty is not a personality and will only get you so far with intelligent people at least) or drama queen as I am sure few have said in their answers.

My next thing after interest and if they attract me, is do they bullshit a lot. I prefer someone straight forward. Always have, emotional vampires are exhausting, who needs that,.

Slartybartfast · Answer

#1 doesn't take care of herself, no exercise , obese , bad teeth , smoking etc..
#2 no job, isn't traditional, but wants me to be.
#3 a slob , my ex never cooked, cleaned (anything, ever) and never paid a bill. I'd come home from working two full-time jobs and have to cook and clean before going back to work when she did nothing.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Lazy personality
She's HUGE
Involved in a crazy movement
She's a bitch
Unpleasant to be around
She's a loser
She smokes
Has 4+ kids from multiple dads
She has serious self awareness issues
She's one dimensional
Not loyal
Can't be trusted
Super annoying

DonkeyDan · Answer

It's about the personally and attitude for me. Someone who is closed minded, no sense of humour, hates themselves or is generally a hateful person, also someone who is negative. I am all of the opposite of these, I am open minded, have a good sense of humour, I like myself and don't feel the need to hate others, and I'm generally a positive person. Why would I put up with someone who isn't similar in many of those respects.

worldscolide · Answer

She's incredibly high maintenance
She espects me to pay for everything and treats me like an atm.
She's a feminist
She's a sex worker or ever has been a sex worker
She smokes
She does drugs
She drinks
She's a narcissist
She's a liar

Those are reasons I would not see her as worthy of me.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

It's not so much a matter of not being good enough, it's just that some things make us incompatible. Like, I'm more of a homebody, and if she wants to go out a lot, there's nothing wrong with that, but we probably won't work out because she'll either be bored if we stay home or I'll be tired and bored if we go out.

slatyb · Answer

There is no universal scale of goodness, and I would never judge a woman as "not good enough for me". I am either attracted or I'm not. There are some deal-breakers that will instantly make me not attracted -- smoking, heavy drinking, lack of consideration for others, etc.

Georgepithyou · Answer

If she uses Snapchat, Any female that uses snap chat is searching for free attention. No matter what the age of the woman. When you give them free attention, you not only make them not invest AT ALL but you also blend in with every other clown that is snapping them.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

•Doesn’t take care of herself •Arrogant or self absorbed •Depressive or negative attitude •Dismissive •Shallow •Rude or angry often •Emotionally unavailable •Dishonest

Dchrls78104 · Answer

A girl will never be good enough for me:
1. If she lacks intelligent or is empty headed.
2. If she smokes, drinks, or takes drugs.
3. If she's a feminist or supports abortion.
4. With a bad temper or a violent streak.
5. With a high body count.
6. If she's a golddigger or high maintenance.
7. Overweight or emaciated.

007kingifrit · Answer

1. feminism. miss me with that shit 2. has her pronouns on her profile? im out instantly 3. obese 4. too many tatoos 5. emotional problems 6. doesn't want kids those are all very bad signs

Hmmmsomething · Answer

If she was previously a male.. that's the only reason I can think of. Any born female is good for me. I have low standards and will take anything you hand to me. I'm not ungrateful

Jake99999 · Answer

"not good enough"? what does that mean? You are either attracted and interested in a woman, or you are not. It's not a value judgement of her worth.

Purpleronnie · Answer

The list of traits of not to have is too long so I shall say instead that the most overwhelming reason is just not being a decent person. I think the huge bulk of us understands what it means to be decent , a good human. The rest is negotiable :)

BCA6010 · Answer

In no particular order: - Boring to be around- Selfish- Drugs, smoking, heavy drinking- Unintelligent/lacking common sense

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

If she's generally unhappy or miserable or bitchy most of the time Has no friends (probably from being miserable all the time) Doesn't care about her appearance and/or slobbbbbbbb

Aethereal · Answer

- She is arrogant - Does not believe in mutual happiness in a relationship - Does not want to be in an equal relationship - Prioritizes others over me - Is manipulative

Bluemax · Answer

I don't use the term "not good enough." I prefer unattractive or incompatible.  1. Below average intelligence  2. Below average looks 3. Below average compassion

Anonymous · Answer

because the person you're with and want to be with acts like and treats you like you're not good enough

DWornock · Answer

She is not pretty enough. She is not intelligent enough. She comes from a very poor family. Her parents and family member are ugly which implies she has ugly genes and likely you will have ugly children.

weeee · Answer

-boring -no sense of humor -shallow -cares too much about what others think of her

Iron_Man · Answer

Non-Christian low standards low moral values. She is a cheater. Lacks intelligent conversation. A lazy girl that doesn’t wanna help pull her weight

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

Pretty much everything I would say would come down to being too politically and socially progressive or being a member of the woke ideology destroying western civilization right now.

Clarke498 · Answer

I just met a girl that changed the game. One i could be completely honest with. So if i can't be that with girls from now on, they would be it.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Slut Fat Too old Had kids already Divorced Feminist Girls who have any one of these issues are just far below me in dating value so no chance.

Anonymous · Answer

If she’s dumb , rude and not kind , has a princess syndrome.

Nik1hil · Answer

Some of my deal breakers are..  Mental illness..  Mental issues that affect her significantly.  Drug addiction.  Alcohol addiction..  Lack of education.. In economics and science..

Anonymous · Answer

When they are hoes.
When they play hard to get
Stop gaming me
When they judge others
When they have emotional breakdowns easily
When they don't like romance
When they don't like affection
When they use affection as a reward

tropicalbreeze · Answer

Different personalities or clashing differences of opinions. You know. Or things like that. Just the standard old things.

Anonymous · Answer

If she's shallow Liberal  To open about sex Has no real values Is unspiritual  Materialistic  Attention seeking Bitter And doesn't love specificaly girls that try to make deals and leverage things

Caliguy88 · Answer

I don’t look at it as not good enough…. I just like to align with the girl. Casual. Works hard plays hard, travels….. cooks…. Financially responsible….

Ailaw22 · Answer

The ones claiming to have deep conversation but when it comes to that intelligence nowhere to be found , entitled and party girl who drinks and smoke excessively

FilmGuy93 · Answer

For me it's all attitude stuff. If she has a shit attitude, I'm not interested in having her around.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

She has too many guy friends, doesn't show enough interest, doesn't call back, stuff like that.

anylolone · Answer

If she's imoral, it's not that she's not "good enough for me", she's not even ready for a relationship, depending on how deep the rabbit hole goes, even casual sex of deep friendships.

aob6595 · Answer

For a casual relationship:
Almost always weight

For a serious relationship:
Usually it's just incompatiblity. Not good enough - maybe they work a minimum wage job, come from a family of hillbillies, or are pursuing a useless degree.

TheFlak38 · Answer

You don't have anything to offer today. All you have is a vagina and you think that the entire universe owes you something.

Jonny59 · Answer

not listening  and not taking things seriously  like seriously take them  dont say I'll do it later/tomorrow/next month fuck no DO IT NOW...

BarryLiverstone · Answer

She isn’t honest, is too shy, too insecure, can’t be responsible with money, has a drinking/drug problem

Quidthonian · Answer

If she smokes. I don't care about all the other things, but if she is too weak to say 'no' to tobacco then she is not good enough for me.

Fuentes · Answer

Her lips are tiny, no ass, she lacks a brain, she lacks common sense, has manly hands. Those are things i diacard for

Anonymous · Answer

For me it's about her character and attitude, how she views the world, men and relationships. For example, I would never date a feminist.

StickStickity13 · Answer

These days there are too many reasons to count. Women aren't very attractive as partners anymore.

zagor · Answer

Physically unattractive to me (but I'm not that picky) Stupid Mean and cruel Whiny

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

1- Big Feet 2- Bad Breath 3- Flat Ass 4- Mustache 5- Hair on Legs 6- Skid marks inside her panties 7- Shorter than 5 feet

dudeinohio · Answer

Incompatibility... primarily personality but also sexual to a lesser degree.

msc545 · Answer

Not smart enough, not enough education, anti-vaxxer, poor hygiene.

MrMountainLion · Answer

I have to really like her face She has to appreciate me, I don't like really selfish people and it puts me off when girls look down on people

Anonymous · Answer

if she is a feminist, sjw or woke I would rather set her on fire than have sex with her

Hulk30 · Answer

she's not willin to contribute to your life in any way

Anonymous · Answer

If she is not sexy If she has feminist friends If she has had sex with guys other than me

Anonymous · Answer

Too chavvy Too young  I can't think of anything else immediately

Anonymous · Answer

She’s not pretty enough, face/physique wise. Not highly educated either. Not a caring girl.

Anonymous · Answer

When she's flaky and not keeping her word.

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