Why do girls not like good guys?

[Anonymous]

I exercise, eat healthy, have plenty of money, am very physically attractive, I cook, I have lots of friends, im muscular, i am very well educated and intelligent but I can't get a girlfriend. Why does this seem to be such a prevalent phenomenon in modern society?

[Anonymous]

Most women are trash today man. It's an epidemic. But don't hate them for it. Most of them don't even realize they're trash. You can't expect a woman who's trash to recognize a quality man when she sees one. You just keep being you. Be a solid guy, be a man of substance. And a good woman will eventually recognize what you bring to the table.

[Asker]

Yeah I've seen videos where girls in thier mid 30s say they want a man who makes at least 7 figures. I think it really comes down to the individual because they're are lots of men who also have unrealistic standards. But youd think someone whos in their mid thirties would be mature enough to recognize that.

[Opinion Owner]

You'd think man. But let me tell you. I'm old enough enough now that I recognize there is no wise old man (or woman in this case). You hope people gain wisdom over time but some people do not learn from thier mistakes and are doomed to repeat them.

[misogynistic_pig]

That is the description of a beta provider man, women look for that type of man when they want to be maintained and when they have already gone through the carousel of penises.

[Asker]

most girls are not riding the cock carousel and your username matches your exact attitude. I can only assume that your resentful torwards women.

[Anonymous]

Great question, why are guys so whiny in modern society? And then try to imply it must be the fault of women by attempting to describe himself as some near-perfect specimen who we still reject?

[Asker]

Its not womens fault. im definitely doing something wrong. I live in a very small town so that also makes a big impact on available women. I came on here to find helpful criticism not insults. If you have any tips please tell me in a respectful way.

[BarryLiverstone]

You have lots of friends. So then when you all go out why are you not meeting new girls and vibing?

[Asker]

We don't go out often. My friends don't like bars. The very few times I've went I got girls numbers but none of them responded.

[BarryLiverstone]

Bars are not the best place to meet people who want a relationship. I’d suggest you find more things to do and if your friends don’t want to go then you go or ask them if they know people wanting to go out. Sounds like because you are not going out often you are not meeting lots of new people.

[BarryLiverstone]

Obv you are put together so you don’t waste time on dating apps and socials to meet right?

[Asker]

Yeah thats definitely a huge chunk of the problem most of my friends are nerds who made a shit load of money. But they have wives now so we don't see each other as often. Its very hard on my mental state being alone. It doesn't help I live in a small town with one bar. Neighboring towns are an hour away and they are small as well. Tinder is pretty much is non-existent here. I've never been on a date and was abused by my father growing up so I know I have emotional issues. But i try to not let that come through when im talking to girls.

[BarryLiverstone]

In that case I’ll give you honest and practical advice but as a proud guy I doubt you will go with it right away. The advice is find a dating coach or life coach and pay them to get you on your way. Clearly on your own you are secure financially and reaching personal goals but due to a few factors I would predict in 2 years you will be right where you are tonight.

So will you at least agree to do research and explore coaching options this summer?

[Asker]

Yeah this is something I've looked into. However most of these coaches and "dating" gurus are scammers. They take the money and give you bad advice. I've paid for an online coach and he told me to give girls backhanded compliments and that just pissed them off. These dudes dont really know anything about what they are teaching.

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t settle. And you don’t have to pay for a person online. You can do research where you live and get help. Again this is your life and no one else will make you get help. So try again and use your money for self improvement. I guarantee if you get help and then meet someone new and tell her your self improvement story she will love it.

[Asker]

thanks man your right the only thing I can do Is Keep trying

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Also I would suggest you just ask questions using your gag username. Anon can result in some worse answers

[kakaling]

You are wrong, they are scared of you, dumping and controlling a bad boy is easier. Your status is far too high.

[LiamJHayden]

Maybe they find you boring?

[Asker]

Thats definitely part of it i think i dont get out much anymore and i work from home soooo yeah