Guys often mistake being a "good guy" for being a guy with no game, physical attractiveness confidence, or traits that a woman finds desirable in a mate. Just because you don't get women, which in turn means you don't have the chance to play women, doesn't mean you are a good guy. The REAL good guys? Are the guys who can get a lot of women, but choose not to play them. Those are the guys that women really want.
It's similar in reverse for men as well. Girls always wonder why guys go after the hot skanky girls instead of the "good girls." When in reality, those good girls are often just not as physically appealing or have an outgoing personality. The REAL good girls are the ones who can get a lot of men but choose not to be skanky.
This is the real difference essentially. If you're only good because you never have the opportunity to play the opposite gender, you're not really good. Everyone wants the more desirable features, the ones that the jerks/skank have, but we hope we'll meet someone who has those traits and is also good (i.e. chooses not to be a jerk/skank).
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Listen, nine times out of nine, I would always go for the good guy. I mean, the bad guys aren't what television and hollywood really make them out to be. I seriously believe it's just overrated. I dated the bad-boy jock two years ago, my sophomore year and ended up being abused. It's really nothing about the bad guy image, it's more foolish beliefs that are instilled into a girl's mind by movies and overly-glorified ideas. It's just a stereotype like anything else, girls think bad guys are what they want but they always marry the good ones for the most part.
They don't. But why should a girl be forced to date a guy just because he wants her? I feel like the ratio of genuine good guys to guys with no game who claim that are "nice guys" is like 1:10. Too many guys just whine & complain about women's taste instead of actually making themselves desireable. The same argument can be made about women who bitch that guys only want thin women and ignore nice women... Mating is competitive -- and its meant to be by nature's purpose. Do work! It's not just physical traits that a person can brush up on, either.
Women are attracted to men who are capable, confident, have self respect and are emotionally strong, and are comfortable with their sexuality.
There happen to be more jerks like this then decent guys, because decent guys tend to be doing what they were told to do growing up, which prevents them from acting that way. 'Good' boys tend to hide their sexuality, sacrifice self respect trying to please girls, and don't push for their own needs to be met. Women like good MEN just fine.
just wait till they have their fun with the bad boys and then settle for you..oh wait that doesn't sound very good does it? lol
just find a girl who is not like that
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I don't ignore good guys! I just have trouble finding them. :/ There are far more bad guys than good guys in my experience. The majority of the guys I find these days have what I call the "Jersey Shore mentality" which is completely obnoxious in my eyes. As a good girl, I can say that I tend to have the same complaint as you do (in reverse). A lot of guys just want girls who will party and give it up at the drop of a hat.
Bad boys/plays might come off very charming, courageous and fun to hang out with while nice guys might come off as clingy, less charming and plain.
Girls have this shallow perception until they get into bad relationships with guys like that and then they start to understand that *appearences are deceiving*.1. Every girl the good guys chase after
are the mean girls that flock towards assholes
and treat good guys like shit.
2. The only girls they don't go after are the good girls
that constantly show interest in them.
3. And so the good guys end up nowhere.
(Personal experience).Depend of the Good boy you are talking about?
Is he boring, ugly, too serious, passive?
If So I don't care If he is a Good guy he is just to boring and I don't find him sexy, the reason he wants me doesn't mean I want him...
I don't like bad guys either...
I like a fun guyBecause the guy who thinks of himself as the "good" guy, isn't that good. He's BORING.
And the guy he thinks is a "BAD" guy, isn't that bad. But he is INTERESTING.
Girls can tell the difference.i don't know its kind of unfair
im always a good guy and all they want is the bad boy type I don't understandBecause good guys are the people who are good because they are kind-hearted.
They aren't good for the purposes of tricking women into giving them some sex.Because they can .
Whoever does not like it is free to do as he likes .because the eyes are often looking to the soap.bubbles.
This sounds a little bit bitterly, but this is often the truth.bc somtimes girls just like to feel bada** and going with a guy who is gives that effect..
Bad guys are attention grabbers.The good guys are often lost in the background and hard to find.Girls like bad guys because they think they can change them and make them decent and caring. Not how it works though.They end up getting hurt!
Is this true? I would totally go for the good guy! I guess bad boys just have a confident vibe that girls like. Maybe the good guys should borrow some of that confidence and I know us girls would love that;)
They like his confidence and attitude and want to be the special girl that can change him.
the bad guy tends to be more invigorating, charming, and manly
because they can, just like we can ignore whoever we like
girls don't chase bad guys. bad guys chase the girls and he girls say yes because the good guys stand in the corner collecting dust
I don't see many girls doing that.
Same reason why most guys ignore the good girls.
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