Why do guys treat good girls bad?

[Anonymous]

They will do everything he asks of her and he still treats her bad. Why does this tend to happen and why don't guys have mercy for these girls?

[btbc92]

I say porn has a lot to do with it when their younger and exposed to it. And if they have abusive problems at home, that is another good indicator. Overall, they don't know how to treat a woman. And then you have those who also been in relationships where a girl abused him. Its mostly a psychologically issue. But wither its porn, domestic violence or an abusive relationship besides bad experience. They often know what they are doing. But its their choice wither or not they choose to stop. They are not healthy.

And then you have sweet timid girls who do just that. Cater to their every needs without an objection, out of fear they will lose the guy. Its conditioning. They don't know how to fend for themselves. They too haven't been taught better. Its good to be about others more than self. BUT when your deal with a person who takes advantage of you. That is not love. And this is how they end up in abusive situations.

[Asker]

Why would a guy treat another girl bad if the previous girl he was with was abusive? Isn't that like self sabatoge?

[btbc92]

@Asker

Of course its self sabotage. But how many people realize that? Not a lot. 9/10x it gets worse. Some people don't know how to control their emotions. Especially with men and a lot of women. For men, it has to do with the conditioning of the mind. Society says that if a man is emotional, he's weak and not a man. If a man acts like a full on jerk, then a girl calls him out on it. Yet refuse to understand WHY he's being a jerk in the first place. So sadly, its not something that you can just do or tolerate. Its best to just leave it alone and not emotional invest yourself too early in the relationship. Let alone have sex with that person. But can't tell other what to do.

[Wonderer89]

Because some guys are assholes and these girls let them.
Why on earth people stay with people who treat them like rubbish, I have no idea. If these girls left or shut down a relationship every time a guy treated them badly not only are they teaching the guy their value but they're respecting themselves. If the guy doesn't change his behaviour then your not losing anything, he wasn't a catch to begin with.

This is same for those "nice guys" who complain the girl never goes for them - you're letting them mistreat you. It's ok to have standards

[BrileyCat]

Bcos a lot of good girls let them. A lot of guys have a dark side.
that even good girls are attracted to, bcos of that thrill.
Girls like to have a sense of danger, and find a (false) sense
of security and safety with bad boys. It's better to feel something
than nothing, than to be bored with a nice guy. I'm not saying this
is true with all guys and girls but with some of them.

[sai9760]

Because that is what get's them laid. Start being attracted to good men, instead of selfish men if you want something different. Assholes would disappear in a day, if women decided that selfish behavior isn't attractive anymore.

[Bmore_Twinn]

Guys treat good girls bad cause maybe they just isn't meant to be, a guy usually starts loose interests and start searching for someone else to be with

[Felinegirl]

Dunno. Im a 'bad girl' who gets treated good.
Maybe the good gorl needs to learn how to stand up for herself, grow some spine? Don't allow guys to use you like that.

[Felinegirl]

Girl*

[Tanairy328]

Well to be fair, girls treat good guys bad all the time.

[Jesenia]

Being a good woman doesn't mean doing a stupid one. Don't let them hurt you

[Jesenia]

not doing, being*

[Anonymous]

It is the same both ways. Good guys and good girls get taken advantage of pretty often.

[Anonymous]

*badly

Because you're probably going for bad biys

[iceEverestere]

Some (a percentage only) do that...
I am sure guys still like good girls.

[Anonymous]

What kind of guys do you go after? The hottest bad guys?

[bcromartie]

Because good girls are spineless fools.

[scooogy]

I guess it's this daddy instinct

[LeafInTheWind]

Brain damage.

[LeafInTheWind]

I've found some girls just like to be mistreated, even though they say otherwise. Furthermore, if you are nice to these girls, they will mistreat you, unless you claim dominance.