I am the so called "nice" guy. I treat my girlfriend (when I had one) very good. I give her whatever she asks and try to be understanding and talk to her when there are problems in her life. I guess I go out of my way being TOO NICE to her. Every girlfriend I have behaved this way with has cheated on me. The one girlfriend I tried to not be this way with and even went to the extreme of being mean sometimes did not cheat on me and I eventually broke up with her because she was so boring. So why do girls risk a good relationship with a nice guy and cheat with the so called "bad boys"?
Why do girls cheat on the nice guys with bad boys?
What Girls Said 5
the things about "bad boys" is scientific.like an addiction.someone talks to u, then ignores u, makes you curious, makes you wonder aboutm.the push you away then bring you back.its the excitement of not knowing what theyre going to do.how theyre going to act.when you have a "nice guy" its just not as exciting knowing that theyre always going to be there, and always knowing where they are and what theyre doing.its screwed up but that's they way it is.u might have to tweak what you do and how you act.not be mean but be less available, or don't always do what the girl wants.most girls don't know why they pick the bad boys, but once you figure out why its easier to stay away from them.the type of girl you pick has a lot to do with weither they'll cheat on u.some girls do want to be able to "fix" a guy, which never works out by the way, because women want the guy to need them, and they think that's how you keep them.but they usually leave that girl and are "fixed" for the next girl who comes along.i would look for a girl who knows what she wants and is mature.one who has figured out that a "bad boy"isnt what she wants.girls don't wanna be smothered and they don't want to be ignored, its a fine line.u just have to figure out what works with different girls.0
Here's the deal...in a situation where a girl cheats on a "nice guy," odds are it has nothing to do with him, and everything to do with her and her morals.
Otherwise, every "nice guy" would get cheated on and never have a girlfriend. Which, unlike what most guys on GAG like to think, is not the case.1
Some girls cheat on the nice guy with a nice guy. And, the bad boy with a nice guy, or a bad boy. And, a lot of girls don't cheat on a nice guy or a bad boy. AND, all of those scenarios happen vice versa as well. Guys do the cheating, too.1
Because just as there are bad guys,there are bad ladies.if you want to call them that.im so sorry,im going through the same thing,looking back now red flags all over the place.WOW!still crying though.i keep telling myself,its for the better,remind yourself they werent worth your time or attention ,someone else is out there for you,count it as a blessing.0
we we're idiots, there's no excuse for cheating..0
What Guys Said 6
Boredome versus excitement.0
Simply put, they're succumbing to your the sexual urges. The bad boy appeals to her subconscious sexual triggers. The bad boy is more exiting, mysterious, sexual, masculine, or so he appears. As a result, her vagina is more drawn to the bad boy type. If her vagina wins out over her brain, then that is when she cheats.0
heck, weird, most of the time, nice guys don't even end up with a girlfriend in the first place, don't get a first date or just don't make it past the first date0
get ready to hear how over-asked this question is... but yeah happens sometimes, these are the reasons I think why
1.) being to nice is associated with weakness and girls don't want a p**** for a bf
2.) "bad boys" are typically good looking and know how to talk to girls (or else they couldn't be "bad boys")
3.) Girls get bored of someone who always caves in to what they want. they like a little disagreement. one might ask why? well I have no god damned clue, I've heard this more times than Id care to remember but id love to not ever have to fight with a girl but girls for some reason do want to1
Because at some point you where not a challenge to keep their interest, you can be nice and still be a challenge. I use this method, it kinda of player move but have never lost a girlfriend this way. I keep telling myself she is seeing 2 other guys to keep my focus on her and my game fresh. I am never overly available, I don't always text back real fast. Basically I show my Girlfriend if she left I have another life and she won't be in the one I created with her. Sucks to say but the most indifferent usually has the power in the relationship :(
Hope that helps!0
They like a challenge and the excitment of what may happen0
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