How do I stop being afraid of guys?

[Morgan_alexandra]

anytime a guy flirts with me I freeze up and get so anxious I start to cry, I was abused when I was a little kid and now I'm afraid to get a boyfriend and do "it" with someone, does anyone have any tips to help me get over this?

[Guy13]

Become friends with one... and go from there.

[Morgan_alexandra]

I have plenty of guy friends, that's not the problem, it's when I want more than just friendship or I know that's what someone else wants I freak out

[Guy13]

Ohhh, I guess enough disappointment will eventually force you to reevaluate and move forward.

[crossdressingrihno]

You may need psychological help or exposure therapy

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like you have to explore and resolve the trauma you experienced in childhood.