How do I stop being scared of men?

[Anonymous]

I want a boyfriend but the thought of talking to a guy and him realizing he doesn’t like me is giving me a panic attack. Can’t I just skip to where I’m comfortable around him and he loves me.

[slatyb]

Not everyone is going to be attracted to you. So what? If one isn't, another will be. I suggest you find some activity group that men participate in, and just get comfortable being around guys without worrying about whether they want to date you. Outdoor activity groups are great, as they are mostly men so the women that participate get a lot of attention.

[Avcfhcic]

Fight your fears and just get out there!
If you fight fear head on, you're likely to overcome it! We aren't scary, We're more scared of you 😂
If you need, go out with friends and then try and let them mingle and involve you to ease you in

[Mansearching]

I agree.

[NamerOfStars]

I'd suggest starting by just striking up conversations with men. It doesn't have to be about anything romantic; just talking about the weather or some interest can give you an opportunity to see it's not very different from talking to women. Get comfortable with that, and the next steps should come naturally.

[Teriyaki70]

Always be friends first

[Asker]

I have 0 friends. I don’t know where to start.