Am I actually shy and scared of men, or just an attention seeker?

I don't know it's just weird like I can talk with men online like only in some public place online where there will be many people not in personal chats. I want them to talk with me as a human but they often like start flirting or something. I talk with them like how I I'll talk with my female friends but they often think I'm flirting I think. Plus i just get totally back off if I ever find this out. Am I attention seeker or what? I really dk or I'm scared or men in general.

Am I actually shy and scared of men, or just an attention seeker?
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