Why does my boyfriend feel embrassed because I'm his first girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Most likely because he feels that as his age, he should've dated more people. It seems kind of counterintuitive, since if you get the right person the first time, you don't HAVE to date lots of people, but society doesn't really think very clearly about- well, ANYTHING, really, but in particular tends to forget the negative aspects of good things (this is why college is usually seen as so wildly idyllic; they remember the fun parts, and staying up until three AM talking philosophy while sitting the roof, but ignore the constant late nights and exhausting paper-writing). You can suggest boosting his number by breaking up and immediately starting to date again (thereby being both his first AND second girlfriend), but I doubt it'd help.

[TheNewGeneration]

He feels like a loser because he wasn't able to get any girls when he was younger.

[DOGU8585]

interesting situation but its all natural, ı think its good to be first , dont you think?

[Wise4myage]

Because he's new to the idea and he's inexperienced.

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Because he thinks he should have had many girlfriends before you

[Anonymous]

Because you're probably his side chick and he only wants to be seen in public by his main chick.

[Asker]

His friends and roommates have seen us together all the time bro

[Opinion Owner]

He could be cheating and she might live close by in the area hence is why he starts getting nervous outside.

[Opinion Owner]

I am about as much of a psychologist as Dr Phillip with his fake degree that he was honored and didn't go to school for.

[Asker]

You have gone completely off topic

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you're making us answer a question with 0 context like I am some mind reader or have super power to know exactly what's going on 0 details on the state of your relationship, is going well, is it just when he goes outside. Nothing. You expect me to be a mind reader or something?

[Asker]

I dunno sorry its just I'm surprised he doesn't have much confidence since he's an engineer and he says he's ugly because he wasn't popular with the ladies in his life

[Waldoe]

you think "shyness" is embarrassed, It is NOT