Why so many places I worked,. doesn't give me a chance to get a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I feel sad and stressed out.. I tried online dating site, but no one greet me.. so I decided to delete the account. and in this site, some guys greeted me , but then ignored me. one of them become my close friend. we liking each other... but he live in other country. he was hoping me to work in his country. but I don't even know how to get a job abroad.

how I'm going to live my life.. ? I want to build a family.. a stable job.. but it seems impossible to have that.. I'm mixed blood.. so I don't see any local guys like me even tho I received a lot of compliments from people.. 😔

[DannyUk2017]

Becouse is hard to find the person you want!
I have been online since 13y ago...(after the divorce), but to be honest... i became Introverted, and reside myself to the online world, and is kinda "peacefull and fun", no shouting, no drama, no broken heart, no staying with me just for the "financial" gain, etc... I can message/sext/text/voice message/picture exchange... to whomever i want and when i want without ALL THE DRAMA! 😉

[Asker]

you didn't go to meet the women you sext with?

[DannyUk2017]

Never had the chance, they didn't turn up to the date...

[Asker]

seriously?

[DannyUk2017]

Yup... so is stuck to sexting...

[Asker]

do you always change your sext friends?

[DannyUk2017]

Well i don't have any friends, but yeah i always change to random people, or they run out of idea/imagination and they stop, so i am forced to change.

[Asker]

so you meet a few new people for sext in a year?

[DannyUk2017]

You can find in any platform, but never met them in person..

[Asker]

do you get bored if you sext with only one person? sorry if I'm asking a lot

[DannyUk2017]

Its fine, if you ask a lot...😁, actually if you never met yes as all becomes same old, so yeah kinda... its same as real life, its all sparks and fireworks up to a point, sometimes both will flame out! Mainly when the Desire is lost, that is when all start to slide "down the drain...

[Asker]

that's sad.. means no chance to make things more serious?

[DannyUk2017]

Yup, you got that right!, guess this generation, and the ones to come, gotbused just to fuck/love only ONLINE

[Asker]

now I'm sad.. how I'm going to have a boyfriend if dating online won't work.. currently I sexting with online guy.. been months.. I like him but because you said that.. means I don't have chance to be with him 😔

[DannyUk2017]

Wait! Don't get ur hopes Down, you need to "know a bit" the guy, to see it/feel it your way, then you can make that decision. He has to be able/wanting to Compromise, like... coming to see/meet you... if he doesn't want or finds excuses, then he is Keeping You just for Entertainment! That's why i don't date... I sniff them out first! If looks like all (most) the attention is pointed to me, then sounds like a (optimal/geniunely interested) person... if the sexting/texting/answers are TOO SHORT, then i know i'm just the 3rd wheel...

[20yearsolder]

So you've worked many places and somehow they've stopped you from having a boyfriend? How does that work? How did they stop you?

[Anonymous]

Bc you don’t usually meet a dating partner at your job. Maybe join a club, take workout classes or art classes, just take part in a fun activity - that should increase your chances!

[Asker]

I don't go to club.. I don't drink.. and I don't want my future boyfriend drink. plus many pervert over there.. about art or sport clubs, most of them are kids. no adults.. while at gym, you know what? many old men over there!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh no not clubs as in bars but clubs as in a book club, or a sports club and stuff like that 😆

[DOGU8585]

hello, probably you are very intense and sensitive girl, ı can understand you, ı had similar situation like you, but do not give up, ı believe things gonna happen soon enough, :) nice to meet you by the way

[Guy13]

www.meetup.com.

[TonyMetal___86]

Why are you anonymous?

[Asker]

why can't I?

[TonyMetal___86]

You can but such questions shouldn't be asked in an anonymous mode cause you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself, you ain't doing something wrong...

[Asker]

can't be helped, I ashamed of myself. and I don't want people who I ever talked to know that Im asking this..

[TonyMetal___86]

Okay i understand but you shouldn't be ashamed of yourself cause you did nothing wrong!
There will be someone who will likes you...
Don't lose hope!

[Asker]

thank you.. I'm trying

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome, sometimes it takes time but you will end up with the right person 🙂

[Asker]

I hope.. 🙂