We have met and have been talking for a month. I finally asked what he was looking for in online dating. This was the convo.
Him: “I’ll know when I find it. I have no expectations or anything like that.”
Me: “And there is nothing wrong with that. I have kind of gotten a certain vibe from you so I thought it best to bring it up. I really don’t want there to be any confusion or you to feel like you have wasted your time if you want something else. I have to be honest. Granted I am not rushing into anything with anyone, but I do want to find someone that can eventually lead to something more. I do understand that not everyone is open to that.”
Him: “Fair enough.”
Thoughts on what he means?
Him: “I’ll know when I find it. I have no expectations or anything like that.”
Me: “And there is nothing wrong with that. I have kind of gotten a certain vibe from you so I thought it best to bring it up. I really don’t want there to be any confusion or you to feel like you have wasted your time if you want something else. I have to be honest. Granted I am not rushing into anything with anyone, but I do want to find someone that can eventually lead to something more. I do understand that not everyone is open to that.”
Him: “Fair enough.”
Thoughts on what he means?