Can men help to understand what this guy means?

[Anonymous]

I have made out with a guy on the 4th date but didn't want to have sex yet.

Met him on OLD.

I explained to him That I had a long term relationship but apart from that didn't hook up with the people from the dating apps.

This was his response... Not exactly sure what he means?

[HollyK21]

This all really depends on your morals and what you want from a man at this time. He’s saying that sex is important to him while he’s dating a woman, which is fine but is that what you want as well? To my understanding, dating is that phase before getting into an exclusive relationship, so it’s up to you how much you want to happen with him before getting a title. My biggest advice here is to be honest with yourself about your boundaries and don’t be afraid to cut him loose if you aren’t on the same page. His boundary has been established— sex is important to him, and he will most likely not continue with you if it doesn’t happen soon. You decide if you’re ok with that.

[strateguy632]

First he was supportive and recognized your feelings.

Then he said he wants physical meaning sex, but not as an ultimatum, just hoping you will also want it.

[JFelix]

Sorry but didn't understand, what was his response/what did he say?

[Asker]

I said that I had a couple relationships in the past and last time I was intimate with someone was 1 year ago.

His response to that is in the picture above

[JFelix]

Sorry the image didn't show up for me at first so was confused, from what I understand he wants to have sex with you and would like to escalate the relationship but since you told him you don't do that he is saying that although it's important to him he isn't gonna pressure you, but him saying that id low-key pressuring you anyway, in basic terms he wants to have sex but doesn't want to be a dick

[Asker]

Thanks for the response! Really appreciate.

Yeah, I think men do really crave sex when it comes to dating... And I could see he was really turned on and is highly sexual person.
I like him a lot but it is scary as I'm not sure if he is in it just for sex.

Thanks for pointing out that by saying that he is lpw key pressuring... Didn't notice that at first. I hope be didn't mean to say that so that I'll get anxious he will lose interest and will decide to have sex with him sooner?

[thearchjoker]

It means he wants to get physically intimate and values it but is willing to take his time on getting closer to you

[Asker]

Thanks... Yes, I don't think he wants to be exclusive.
Just not sure if he tried to communicate whether he's only after a casual relationship?

[thearchjoker]

there's not enough text for me to determine

[AviatorTom]

He likes making out with you and would like to have sex with you, but only if you want that.

[noohair]

It means exactly what it says. Thanks for the information. He likes physical interaction. He does not want to pressure you.

[NathanDavis]

he wants sex

that's it

[Asker]

I thought he meant that he likes to have a lot of sex while dating?
Does it only mean he's only after a casual thing?

[NathanDavis]

he already told you it is a BIG thing for him but, that he will not pressure you

at least, going by this one text alone... he has not given you any indication, nor shown any interest of having something else with you

he is interested on sex yes, because it matters to him a lot, but he just said he will not seek it from you... so...

he is probably after someone willing to put up, right away

[Asker]

The way I understood it is that being physical is important to him when dating... Doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't see me as a potential option for a partner in future?

[NathanDavis]

he literally says he dates, for sex... because that is a BIG thing for him

if he were looking for a long term, exclusive partner, he would have said that instead

"a potential long term partner is a BIG deal for me"

but, he did not say that

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s fine with being a booty call

[Account]

He wants the 🕳️.

[LiamJHayden]

He wants it but will wait a little longer.

[Asker]

You think so?

[Jmmmfi4]

HE JUST WANTS ASS

[Asker]

Why would you say that?

[Jmmmfi4]

"THE PHYSICAL PART IS BIG FOR ME"
HE'S JUST TRYING TO DROP A LOAD IN YOU GUARANTEED.

[Asker]

Isn't he just being honest though? Some people want to check if they're sexually compatible before wasting time...

The part I'm really confused about is "the fun and excitement" not exactly sure what he means by that...

[Walksbehindtherows]

Maybe

[Asker]

Sorry not sure what you mean... Maybe what?