When you want to know a girl should you give them your number or social or they should give you theirs?

[poneglyphs]

How do you do it and what is the right way? I did the first option don't know if they're going to talk to me 😕😕😕

[NathanDavis]

you should make sure you get to meet her and know her in person...

if you leave it to online... you might be just one option amongst many other dozens of distractions in her phone, and other contacts as well, and something tells me you would have not much of an advantage among all those...

[poneglyphs]

It's not someone online It's someone irl

[NathanDavis]

that is my point... keep it to real life

do not move it to phone online communication

[poneglyphs]

Oh, but we rarely talk to each other irl so i decided why not talk to me on my phone 🙃

[RealMarek]

First you need to have an enjoyable conversation. If you feel good about it, you can ask for her social media or number. If she doesn’t want you to have it, there is no point in giving her yours.

[poneglyphs]

Hmm well I thought she enjoyed our chat and I did give her my number?

[RealMarek]

Fine. You’ll just have to wait and see if she calls you. Don’t think about it much, just move on. If it happens, it happens. What you don’t want to do is to waste mental energy overthinking this and perhaps getting depressed if the call doesn’t come in.

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, O won't besides she's just a gorl from work but I don't think she's going to be there for a while.

[RealMarek]

Cool. The good news is you got to have a nice convo with a girl. That’s nice in and of itself.

[Anonymous]

The most I have ever given anyone is my email. If they want anything more than that, then they will have to earn it.

[poneglyphs]

Earn it how?

[Opinion Owner]

I have to trust them first and that takes time.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, I see

[Avicenna]

Get hers- that way you aren't waiting for her to contact you- you take the initiative instead to contact her.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well she didn't want to give me hers so. 😕😕😕

[RobT312]

First u need to just talk and get to know her. Be interested in her….. numbers and all of that can happen later , don’t worry about that

[poneglyphs]

Well I do try and talk to her at work but it's not like we're always together

[RobT312]

Gotcha, try outside of work. Doesn’t have to be a date, just have a convo, go get coffee, etc

[poneglyphs]

Well, that's what I'm trying to do but I'm not sure 😕. I haven't talked to her a lot and I rarely talk to her during work. That's why I gave her my phone number but I don't think that was the correct move 😕

[RobT312]

Don’t worry about it, continue to talk to her. Most girls aren’t going to make the first move and call you. You need to take the initiative

[exitseven]

I don't know anything about social media but back in the day I used to ask a girl what her phone number was.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, I did the opposite and gave her my number 🙃 I don't think she will message me back 😅😕

[exitseven]

It is the guy that has to do the chasing. You have it backwards. Maybe that has been your problem?

[poneglyphs]

Oops well it's not like I have a lot of opportunities so...

[Fireguy17]

I found its better/safer for them to contact you.
Many won't, but it only takes one.

[Fuentes]

I get a chick's snap and go off from there

[poneglyphs]

Oh, so I fucked up right?

[Fuentes]

If u got her number your still good lol I just go for snaps

[landingout2]

women only want like 10% of the male population

so its a waste of time