My boyfriend said he wanted me to gain weight. what should I do? (Page 2)

[Flower7]

Don’t gain the weight. He’ll get over it. Either that or you can always end the relationship if he’s not willing to accept you.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Dump him!

There is a fetish called macromastia, (atteacted by super obesity and the fantasy to force feed them further). There is even a horror movie about a serial killer with that.

Enough said? 😅

[bean2k21]

Tell your boyfriend you want him to go to the eye doctor.

[serendipity_006]

please don't change yourself for your boyfriend. he's your BOYFRIEND. he should love you unconditionally, and if he's telling YOU to change YOURSELF for HIM, then he may not be right for you. do what YOU want, not what he wants. xoxo

[Exterminatore]

You should tell him he should be more concerned about the health effects of what he asking you to do than argumenting your looks for him.


Seems selfish he’s asking this.

[Lucikh666]

My advice is don't change for anyone. Let them accept you the way you are else they're free to go

[lightbulb27]

What in the world…
Is his mom really chubby? Wrong for him to do that

[TacosRAwesome]

Tell him to fuck off. Gaining some weight while in a relationship is normal but should happen naturally not through effort.

[love_conquers_lust]

First phrase that came to my mind

[Chaser3232]

Don’t drink the koolaid, it’s a fetish or his insecurities! Don’t abuse yourself for him! Time for self care and dump him!!!

[CaptainOverthink]

He's using sarcasm.. probably.

Either way. You set the standard.

[monkeynutts]

You should get a different boyfriend. One that wants you to be healthy.

[MikeInHawaii]

Dump your boyfriend. If your physician says you need to gain or lose weight, listen to him or her.

[Deku2009]

you should tell him no. You should never change your appearance just to make other partner (your boyfriend) happy. He needs except you the way you are

[sheikalana]

For what reason he wants you to do such thing?

[YollyM]

Do what benefits you physically and mentally, even if it doesn't go with what he wants of you.

[AsaKyo]

More like lose weight and dump that boyfriend

[darkoflights]

you better lose weight healthy just because you want, not for your boyfriend

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Your boyfriend can't love you if he wants you to gain more weight so think this one over.

[Lottifan]

Get a new boyfriend. You’re already well overweight. You should lose weight not gain weight.

[Agent_Elflord]

Tell him off if he tries to persist with it. If he keeps trying to push your boundaries and limits, you might have to leave him.