Is it weird that my boyfriend hides his messages with His babymother?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I exchanged phone passwords because in the past I caught him talking to other females. a few weeks ago he broke up with me to go back to his babymother because she was threatening to put him on child support and keep him away from his child. And even tried to get a restraining order for there child when she found out he was in a relationship. a week after we broke up he told me he wasn't thinking straight he just didn't want her keeping his child away from him. I took him back a few days later and now he has to go to court to get joint custody because his babymother won't let him see his child. I go through his phone often he recently changed his number and told me he would not contact his babymother and would Just go to court In order to see his child. yesterday I went through his phone and he had a screenshot in his phone. he contacted his babymother on a text free app asking to see his child I don't have a problem with that I actually told him to reach out to her or her mother so he could see his child. And he told me he wasn't going to the problem I have is he's deleting this app he contacts her on before coming home why is he trying to hide this from me?

[Changiis07]

Honestly why are you even with him? First of all you caught him talking to other females. That is very disrespectful as there is no more trust in the relationship. Now he is hiding her messages from you. So is there more going on behind close doors when they see each other? Sounds to me like they are on and off and maybe sex has been involved but besides that, it should have been a red flag for you in the beginning if you caught him talking to others. You should love yourself a bit more to not put up with that type of behavior because now he can walk all over you since you are allowing it. You take him back when he breaks up with you, you take him back when he is talking to other females, and you are still with him knowing he deletes the app. I mean if you don't have anything to hide then you wouldn't be deleting things, Girl get yourself someone who values you, and respects you. Otherwise they are not worth it