Those feelings of "Where is he", "Who is he with", "why is he not picking up." If those thoughts havn't already popped up in your head they will...and they will make you miserable. Do you really want to continue a relationship where you have to constantly worry and think of "Will he come stay with me?"
I would just let him go, better for you, and probably better for him. You deserve to be with somebody who hasn't cheated on you and wants to be with you all day every day. Your young, this is way too much baggage to be carrying at the moment, find somebody more stable, with a good job, and has their head in the right place. I'm not saying mistakes can be made, but your boyfriend committed a pretty big one and its one you will constantly have to think about, no matter how much you think you might be over it.
I wish you the best but please think this relationship over carefully and make a conscientious decision...
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I'm not saying that you're wrong to decide. Simply put yourself in the shoes of that baby mama of your boyfriend. Do you want to stop talking to your baby papa because he already has a new relationship? It still up to you.
well you can't make someone cheat so if he's still drawn to her/feels responsible/connected to her and not making the effort to disconnect from her then there's really nothing you can do about it except extricate yourself from the situation and leave them to it. If they are giving the baby up then once the baby is gone they will have no reason to be connected unless it's what he still wants.
I would stop seeing him... not only does he have a kid, but he cheated on you. No, doubt there will be more contact with her in the future, because he will have to see his kid, but will you be able to trust them alone anymore? Will, he be mad at you for asking that... That's too much asking you deal with that. Try talking to the girl directly and tell her that is inappropriate.
I think you should just find a boyfriend who won't cheat on you. Problem solved.
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you really need to open your eyes. he's already cheated on you once with this woman, and is still in contact with her? what more evidence do you need? it's only a matter of time before he cheats again, and will probably get knocked up again. I'd move on and get tested for STDs
You shouldn't date young guys with children for a reason... they need to still grow up half the time :/
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