Im so jealous help me?

[Anonymous]

So i think i have a crush on this guy. We are at the same class but some other girl is always near him like she's always trying to talk to him and stuff but she is a really toxic girl fr and he frickin gives her the attention she wants. She literally has a boyfriend but they always jokingly touch eachother and stuff. I talk with him too but im not always up on his ass all the time because i dont wanna seem as “needy” and thats not who i am but he seems like he likes her. She’s literally a pick me girl like IM GOING CRAZY. She always tries to take me with her so i can't be alone with him. What should i do please?

[ohsheeT]

Okay first of all stop being jealous there's nothing to be jealous of

You
Can't be jealous if somebody talking to somebody are you mad at yourself because she beat you to him at that moment look you're going to like a lot of guys you're probably going to meet 500 more guys in your life don't ever be jealous of anybody else if you want something put yourself in that position to get it work for it it just doesn't happen you have to make it happen start paying attention to everything that you're doing because what you're doing is you're Paving the path to your future by experiencing the things that you experience each and every day you're here on this planet to experience things beautiful things hurtful things painful things loving things and understand everything that you go through it's for a reason it's to make you think and to make you grow that's what we do you only know what you know right now true the more you experience the more you know the more you know the more you understand from day one when you started walking and you fell down you got back up and you started walking again because you wanted to experience that you fell down again and you got back up you're doing the same thing in life every single day and if you can understand that and live your life like that you will become one amazing person


So right now you're experiencing one of the greatest evils jealousy is no good it's a waste of time and energy because there's no reason to be jealous of anything you're jealous because she's talking to him or he's talking to her which guess what that's going to happen throughout everybody's life everybody talks to everybody so don't take yourself there when you get jealous you get wrinkles you get old very fast you get an attitude that's not who you're supposed to be you're supposed to look fresh alive and just because you think you know something doesn't mean that you know it we all read in the things differently it's just like getting a boyfriend and you don't know if that boyfriend is cheating on you or looking at other girls guess what you don't have any control of that the only thing you have control of is meeting the right person and it wants to be with you and proves it by doing so you can't be jealous throw that word away and get it out of your vocabulary when you're jealous that allows you to take your mind and 50 different directions all at the same time and not knowing what's going on you don't need to know what's going on the only thing you need to know is who you are and what you are all about that's the only person you care about and around about way of speaking you be the best you can be and you will have the best people coming to you wanting to be with you

[Staximus]

Why don't you tell him "hey let's go get a burger after school" or something

[Asker]

i feel like i’d get in the way since they get along really well

[Asker]

also we go back home together because our houses are close