Is it ok to be 16 and date a 18 year old?

[blunty]

My sister is dating an 18 year old boy. Do you think someone's not being an adult is a problem in a relationship?

[PeteBy]

Depends on the age of consent in your state/country. It's 16 here in the UK and while some kids do choose to stay on in school until 18, it's not mandatory to be in school after the age of 16. Quite a number of kids leave school and go to work full time at the age of 16 so there's not the same social stigma here I guess.

With my step-father's hat on. I didn't let my teenage step daughter date anyone at all. I know what little horndogs teenage boys are lol

[mandyfire98]

I think it's fine. I dated an 18 year old when I was 16. It would also depend on age of consent laws in your area.

[Paulalove98]

It depends where you live but till she's 18 of its illegal they should find people that are their age.

[AI Opinion]

Can a 18 Year Old Date a 16 Year Old?

There are a few things to consider when answering this question:

• The first is the legal implications. In most states, 18 is considered the age of majority, which means that any person over the age of 18 is an adult. A 16 year old, on the other hand, is considered a minor. This means that there are some legal restrictions on what an 18 year old can do with a 16 year old. For example, in many states it is illegal for an adult to have sexual relations with a minor.
• The second thing to consider is the maturity level of the two people involved. It is not uncommon for there to be a big difference in maturity level between an 18 year old and a 16 year old. An 18 year old is typically more mature and better able to handle the responsibilities of adulthood than a 16 year old. This is not always the case, of course, but it is something to keep in mind.
• The third thing to consider is the emotional maturity of the two people involved. This is often related to the maturity level, but not always. A 16 year old may be emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship with an 18 year old, while an 18 year old may not be emotionally mature enough to handle a relationship with a 16 year old. This is something that can only be determined on a case by case basis.
• So, can a 18 year old date a 16 year old?

It depends. There are a few things to consider before making a decision.

Is it Legal to be 16 and date a 18 year old?

The quick answer is "yes," but there are some caveats to consider:

• In most states, the age of consent is 16, which means that anyone under the age of 16 is not legally allowed to consent to sexual activity. However, there are some exceptions to this rule. In some states, if both parties are close in age (for example, if the 16-year-old is no more than two years younger than the 18-year-old), then the law may not consider the 16-year-old to be a victim of statutory rape.
• There are also a few states that have what is called a "Romeo and Juliet" exception, which allows young people who are close in age to each other to have consensual sex even if one or both of them is under the age of consent.
• So, while it is technically legal for a 16-year-old to date an 18-year-old in most states, there are still some things to consider before taking that step. For one thing, it's important to make sure that both parties are truly consenting to the relationship. If there is any doubt about that, it's best to err on the side of caution and not proceed.
• Another thing to consider is the potential consequences of the relationship. If it becomes sexual, the 16-year-old could be charged with statutory rape, even if the sex is consensual. That could have major implications for the rest of the 16-year-old's life, so it's important to weigh those risks before getting involved.

If you're still unsure about whether or not it's legal for you to date an 18-year-old, it's a good idea to talk to a lawyer or other legal expert to get more information.

[cryoqueen]

I'm only speaking from a UK stand point but no not in regards to the UK as that is college age and the age of consent over here it's only a concern if it's a duty of care situation and very usually the age gap isn't really two years as such in UK settings and really depends on when your birthday is like me I was 17 in 2020 my boyfriend at the time was 18 in January that year so for a while I was 16 until April that year could be a year apart in reality for all you know so you have to be careful if you make rash judgements could only be a grade/school year below for all you know it all depends really on a lot of things

[NamerOfStars]

Morally? Of course. Legally? Probably- but check, just to be sure; most places have "Romeo and Juliet" laws specifically to ensure no one gets jailed for no good reason if ages don't sync up exactly. Socially? That's where it gets iffy. Some people are just STUPID about that sort of thing, and will look down on people dating like that, even if it's explicitly nonsexual.

[DannyUk2017]

If they are close age gap, then should be fine, but from guy's pov i would've waited untill she would be at least 18 before making a "move" on to sexual encounters, just to be on the "safe side".
They could still make out, but no penetration, or other deep stuff, as if "situation changes", goes sideways, she could denounce him for rape, and that would suck... really...

[Kaneki05]

Country laws say it's okay and so do I. It's only 2 years difference and they've both left school by this point if here. Maybe the 16 is just finishing school. But yeah at 16 here that's your last year here before collage or job or Uni.

[David_Kek]

Depends what your age of consent laws are. Here in the UK you can have sex at 16, yet for some weird reason you're not allowed to buy porn until you're 18. So what that means is at 16 you're allowed to have sex, you're just not allowed to look down while you're doing it.

[roxbby]

LOL That's funny

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

As long as the laws are legal but an 18-year-old knows more and he knows about the birds and bees, I've seen a couple dating, she was age 17 and he was age 19 so it's tough to say, what is legal or illegal. I would hope that they would reframe from sex to she was age 18 also sometimes it's better to sit down and have a talk with both of them.

[TroyDT]

Dating, yes. Getting intimate? Depends upon the jurisdiction. In California, for example, it is technically illegal (sex with a minor) to have relations with anyone under 18 unless married. In most U. S. states the age of consent is 16, so that would not be illegal. In others there are close in age exceptions (generally two or three years) known as "Romeo and Juliet" laws.

[Anonymous]

If it's legal in your state then it's fine. If not then it in secret until your 17 or 18. In my state 17 is the legal age I don't know about yours. It's not like you're 10, so I don't see it as wrong.

Rose McGowan had sex with a guy who was 15 i think. Which I think it is sexual misconduct, but I wouldn't consider it pedophilia. It can be bad though. But he's still a teenager like you, so I don't think so.

[Kiss_Me]

If she is dating someone that is 18 there is a significant probability they are having sex.

Should you feel like the guy is not responsible enough to handle the situation or is taking advantage, speak to your sister.

[kmg9150]

Adulthood is a mindset not an age, its doubtful he himself is an adult. To your retrospect, why is ok adults are going to school with 14 year olds and people expect them not date... If he ain't abusive I feel there is nothing wrong.

[JamesDiaz11]

Legally there's no problem with it, and realistically girls want to date guys older than them, but if she sends him any nudes then they're both going to jail.

[Avicenna]

That depends on the laws in the relevant jurisdiction. But if my kids are still in high school, I don't want them dating someone who's out of high school already.

[Googlemyahoo]

When I was in grade 12 my girlfriend was in gr 10. I went to university she was in gr 11. Technically I was an adult dating a minor. Nobody seemed to give a shit.

[JustADudePlayinADude]

If they are both in high school, I would be weirded out by it, but wouldn't have an issue. If the 18 year old is out, then it is gross and stupid.

[littlepig2002]

Had this question been asked five years ago, I would say absolutely. Now, I have to say that it is NOT okay. You’re a minor and the person you are pursuing is an adult.

[littlepig2002]

Apologies. I just read the take. It is the sister. Not you, original writer.

[maximumpower]

As long as sex isn't involved.
Anyone who has sex with an underaged individual - consensual or not - is gambling with their future.
Didn't used to be like this but now it is...

[art84]

If I was 18 years old I wouldn't date a 16 year old. Just too tempting unless you're just friends and nothing more.

[Jennz6]

Dinner maybe, no sex, that’s illegal for him.

[VikingWarLord]

16 is the age of consent in most jurisdictions so why are you worried?

[zagor]

Sure. When I was in HS some girls were dating a lot older than that.

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

It's legal, here in my state, but you gotta wonder why he's settling for a girl that young

[User_69]

Now you have to travel on time. Go to your 18 ages and think about it again.

[Anonymous]

The only issue is if there is sexual activity, because he can end up in jail for it.

[LazerBean]

If you aren't doing sexual things then sure.

[CatsMeow0912]

I don’t think dating is a problem

[ItsYouBabe]

who gives a shit

[Drumlin2001]

18 and 16 is OK

[Batmanismydaddy]

Nope

[ASHELY14000]

No is ethnically

[CT_CD]

Yeah

[In_Trance]

Sure

[Calenderagressive]

NAHHHHH

[panamared1]

of course

[jjj101010]

No it’s fine

[jjj101010]

For reference the age of consent in the UK is 16