Should I wait for her?

[Anonymous]

I met this gorgeous girl and we've being seeing each other for a month. In our last date i confessed my feeling so i can understand where is this going. She said she really likes me but she need time to think because her last relationship affected her a lot (she doesn't love her ex anymore tho) any advice?

[Anonymous]

Yes... never ever confess your feelings. You may notice how things were probably going fine and progressing some what until you confessed your feeling. Instead of confessing your feelings, what you do instead is build attraction until they have the same feelings for you. You felt the need to confess because you were trying to force an action... those are symptoms of not having build attraction first.

[Asker]

I think we build a good attraction, we're flirting a lot and we like each other as she said. But she need time because in her last relationship she was hurt badly so she said me before that she couldn't love or like anyone until i build a good connection. I confessed to know my current situation and how is this going. And she told me she likes me but she needs time

[Opinion Owner]

Confessing was a mistake. You have to understand that they don't want to be sure of how you feel, ambiguity is more attractive. Showing your feelings is the better option.

[TonyV]

It's only been a month, I think you rushed it too much, now while she's trying get to know you she'll be thinking about how you already love her after like 4 dates.

[Asker]

It's been like 8 dates and i don't think that i love her. I just really like her

[TonyV]

Oh so 2 dates a week, well good think you didn't confese your love but still, a month is a bit soon to say you really like someone, play it cool dude, you can show you like someone without saying "i like you", I feel like 2 dates a week fits that message across as is.

[QuietVerbena]

Be patient with her

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your advice!

[QuietVerbena]

You’re welcome 😊