No offense to the other comments, but nobody heals from a devastating breakup in 3 days lol, we could only wish. Anyway, It’s good that she was transparent about her feelings from the start, but it probably would’ve been better for her to not involve herself with you (or anyone) until she was ready, because now you’ve invested time and feelings, so respecting this decision of hers will be hard. That part was avoidable and is her fault. But as of now, if she needs time then give her that, and leave your options open. I say this because who knows how much space she will need to heal, and if ultimately she decides she either wants to go back to him or stay single and find another guy, then you would be even more hurt, feeling angry for having waited for nothing. So this is me saying to just focus on yourself again, and if you’re still open to trying with her when (and if) she puts romance back on the table then go for it. I’m sure she’s a very nice girl, just going through some stuff and needs space/time.
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Usually when I was talking to someone as I was getting over someone else, my feelings naturally gravitated towards who was making me happy. I wouldn't even start to talk to someone if I wasn't open to the possibility. If you still believe your ex is the best for you, no one is going to change your mind unless you're mentally secure that your ex WAS NOT, and moving on is a better choice. So I'm confused where it started and stopped and how that occurred, I'd be afraid of you slipping away so I wouldn't even consider telling you that, but I don't know maybe she doesn't mind making guys think it through. I'm more on the desperate side so I wouldn't risk it. That's what I have to say on that.
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Just be patient. Don’t rush her.
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