Is a woman seen as “easy” if she waits 6-8 dates before putting out?

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Apparently I’m a “slut” for having sex with a guy I dated for over a month who heavily pursued me. I waited til the 6th date to.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Okay time out first of all who was the person that called you a slut second of all does it even matter what they think you went your own speed when you felt things were right you allowed it to happen there's nothing wrong with that that's your choice and that's you as a person and you have that right whoever calls you a slut that's their opinion and they're opinion doesn't matter because it's an opinion it's just like most of these questions on here people are asking for your opinion so we give it but in the real world if you were one with everything you don't give your opinion to anybody you keep neutral it's their business and only their business they're trying to make you feel something that you're not and you might be allowing them to do so if you ask a question like this I hope you're not allowing yourself to feel that way because you're not hell if it would have been me dating you I was trying to get into your pants probably the very first second third fourth fifth date but see that's who I am and on that person for many different reasons I would love to get into it with you and tell you why that's why I would do it but I won't at the moment but don't allow people to put something in your mind and make you start thinking about it because it's a waste of time it is your choice and and his choice and that's between the both of you and only the both of you fuck with everybody else says it's none of their business and you know better than that too to allow yourself to go there don't ever allow anybody to take your mind someplace like that because it's a waste of time and energy you did it it's over with end of story Smile I hope you enjoyed it that's what it's all about if not get it right the next time and enjoy it first too LOL you got at least enjoy it if somebody's going to call you that

oldawg · Accepted Answer

In my experience the answer is NO not a chance that your easy and if a guy really likes you for you and him not chomping at the bit [so to speak] then he is a keeper. I have had girls jump me before we have even started the date and I have had ones that took months so no you are definitely not easy. Just as long that after him waiting for so long that you don't say those 3 words that every guy hates to hear... [Were Just Friends]... Lol Have fun Sweetie there is nothing wrong with waiting 😉

AssholeNumberOne · Accepted Answer

Hell nah. You know what's best for you, 6th date or first date

JessJJ · Accepted Answer

God no. I always have sex on the first date.

loveslongnails · Answer

Hmmm... and who's decided that you're a slut because of that? Anyone who matters?

It's fascinating to me that so many females on here measure "slutiness" by the amount of time, or the number of dates, before they have sex or put out. From my perspective, and I can't speak for other males, there's no magic number of dates or meetings that if reached make you a "non-slut". There's a lot more to the whole thing than a random number.

Derekk · Answer

Most of the people on here appear to have been timewarped from Victorian England. Ignore them. You're not a slut.

slatyb · Answer

You're a "slut" -- according to whom? Avoid those people.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Well I don't think a real man would ever call a woman easy if he knows what respect is all about... If two people like each other and they're both adults I'm very sure you don't have to answer to anyone about what they think you can just enjoy it and not have to worry about that

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

I always say if you are hot & horny for each other go to town & make love like you never made love before. You are not a slut you are just in love.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Its a Stupid thing from others... That sounds like "others" have control over ur body and mind, that is not "how it used to be" a while back!

ZackBan · Answer

Personally i find a woman to be easy if she has sex before 15 minutes of meeting a guy. Anything beyond that I'm good with and can respect

Ryan1979 · Answer

Haters gonna hate. There are no rules to when and how many makes you easy. Who cares what others think about you... it's your life be happy

Berethor · Answer

Anything less than waiting until marriage can be seen as slutty.

Kaneki05 · Answer

No that sounds painfully long instead. Though myself wouldn't mind.

Shamalien · Answer

If she has no commitment or agreement of relationship with the guy, then yeah, to the slut bin she goes

FilmGuy93 · Answer

lmao no. That is the antithesis of the "easy" woman.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

No, the guy would rather see himself being friendzoned and you not being attracted to him

maximumpower · Answer

No. They're seen as "easy" if it takes fewer than 4 hrs from time of meeting them.

BLP11520 · Answer

I don't know I might be considered a dinosaur by some folks. Self control is a thing of the past?

justEric · Answer

No, you're both single, you do whatever you want

Nikki1989 · Answer

6-8 dates is far too long.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Who called you a slut?

Onashir · Answer

I would say to long of a wait

Idi4btn · Answer

Premarital sex is a sin.

EaterPeter · Answer

May be, mostly not.

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