Also does anyone else fuccin hate Lana del ray?
seriously is there a volume lower than mute?
With women it seems to generally break into two groups.
1. Is the woman who meets her future husband in high-school or college. They are together for a few years, maybe even engaged for 10 years b4 tying the knot. Usually the woman tries to get married at 29 after she and her fiancee saves for years and she has a steady career. A year after the marriage she gets pregnant and they try to have 1-3 kids in quick succession.
2. Is the woman who has spent her early teens and her twenties bed hopping and always trying to trade up in relationships. She does this because she thinks she has time and there has been a lot of intrest from high quality men in her teens and twenties. Then when she hits 30 she starts to panic as the window for marraige and kids is getting smaller so single at age 30 it might take anywhere between 3-10 years to meet a guy and get him to the point he's ready for marraige and kids and those high quality men she turned down in her twenties already taken or are dating younger women in their twenties.
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Feminism tells them everyday they can do anything. Including sleeping around in their youth, disrespecting themselves, living their best life and a handsome rich man will want her in her 30s and 40s after 200 cocks and 3 abortions. They also don't care if children have fathers anymore. It's all bad. They're showing a really sick side of themselves.
Some people come to seriously seeking relationships later in life because they weren't ready earlier. Others want to wait until children are grown.
But there are a host of reasons that only that person knows.
However, youth and beauty aren't the arbiters of a wonderful person. Some of the ugliest people around are young and pretty. But they're miserable human beings. There doesn't seem to be a parallel question of "Why do MEN wait until they are no longer young and hunky to start dating seriously?"
The problem is women are judged on razor-thin, shallow values that don't weigh their intelligence, integrity and skills, whereas men are not. It's called sexism.
Can’t speak for other women but I personally always wanted to get married and have so many babies like mama but every guy I loved always hurt me. I was married at 20 but he betrayed me and left me. Then at 21, I fell in love again and same. I learned that nearly everyone is traumatized by their pasts and are not moving on. Of course I’m not perfect but I am always willing to work on things and grow together but they all left. Now I’m just single and staying to myself. I am much more at peace but no husband and no babies of my own. I do get to play with my sisters tho☺️
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Many people don't see any reason to settle down until their dating pool noticeably worsens.
I have no plans of waiting until I am older, if I found the right person right now I would.
I suspect though too many are shooting for the wrong people and perhaps as they learn and get experience from failures they change their standards to be a little less vain.
I don’t know I guess they waste time on partying or messing around or maybe not even that but haven’t found the right person. I haven’t met the right guy yet so that’s why.. my cousin met her husband at 26 and she’s married now at 31, sometimes it takes a little longer I guess but not everyone finds it that young anymore. I hate how people think life will stop at 25, for some people it just began, my cousin is a perfect example since she didn’t start very young but still young at 26 when she found her now husband and they have a son together. My friend met her ex husband at 18 and wished she hadn’t started that young because he became abusive and isn’t around for their kids no more. Sometimes rushing can turn into a disaster.
I "think" I know what you're trying to ask? LOL I also think that women, generally speaking, ARE ready to date seriously with a mind towards marriage at a much younger age than men! It's the men who don't want to marry until they're 30-31. Women are averaging 27-28.
When girls are young, more men are attracted to them. It's the best time to date, marry and make babies. But instead of getting serious they play games and reject men to show men that they are smart and have more choices. They realise as they grow old, when they loose their beauty and only few men show interest. All the men who were rejected by her finds a younger girl to date and marry. We men do have many choices.
It's true in my case, when I was a teenager I was in love with a girl. But she rejected me. She is married, she is a mom of two kids. When I saw her recently I was shocked, she looks too old. But I still look so young. I don't want to see her again, she looks unattractive.
Because when they are young and beautiful they can easily jump from one guy to another and not give a damn.
But once they are older and they are not beautiful they can no longer use men and toss aside like they did, and realize they want to be with someone, now they are ready for a relationship.
Feminism. Men don't need to rely on men for anything now. So women foolishly squander thier youth as ALL young people do. Then one day they wake up and realize thier telephone isn't ringing anymore. Then they spend the 2nd 30 years. Of thier life chasing previous glory.
Oh! Degrade me more, daddy. It turns me on so much 😩 Tell me how ugly I am and how I don’t deserve love.
Both men and women do this. They probably feel like they can shoot someone higher than whoever that is available right in front of them, so why settle? They have no idea as they get older, their look starts to fade away. By the time they are ready to commit, all of the people they friend-zoned in the past are already with someone else so they have no choice other than lowering their standards. Most of the time, they will end up with someone worse than those people they rejected.
A woman's life goes on and she needs to be grateful and life her life unmarried and being irresponsible for once. But then when we're like 30 , we would need to partner or a marriage based on a person's needs (if they even need to get married or not) so basically marriage is sometimes tiring to handle, so it's better than wasting life in taking care of kids and house.. So we would be happier, great at work, and enjoy every second of life
Or more importantly till it starts getting problematic to have children.
It is fairly obvious I think. Education takes up a reasonable part of the 20's. Establishing a career will take up the rest. So for women taking this path it is almost certain they will be looking at their 30's for children. Along with children they will probably want a husband.
So they will be not so young and beautiful by then.Because they have been sold on the idea that a woman's best time for fun is between 18 and 30, where she can do anything, and there will be an army of simps waiting to save her and her bastard children.
Women's beauty ends at 25
30 is when they hit the wall and no longer dateable
at 30 is when you see women crying and screaming" WHERE DID ALL THE GOOD MEN GONE "
Because society and feminsim tells women this garbage ass lie that they can fool around and have fun in their twenties and then settle with a good man when they're older. But what they don't tell them is that a lot of men dont want leftovers or women who have good men waiting in their twenties and now want to date them. Men move on and if he knows his worth and value will pursue a woman who doesn't have this mindset
cuz that's when they have finally settled down with a stable job or whatever and are ready to? heck, you got 6 years, i don't see you with anyone anytime soon.
I don't want to give up all the other guys yet.
Short answer is we all grow up slower these days
stunted generation
Because it sounded good while they were sold a bill of goods much like buying a vehicle with shinny polished wheels and paint with countless miles driven.
Why do men wait until they’re no longer young, saggy, and used up before taking a woman seriously?
Many folks in their twenties are still trying to figure themselves out and what they want to do with their lives. Others are trying to get their traveling done while they're in the peak of health. There are many reasons not listed.
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