Is it bad if she cancels your 1st date?

[Anonymous]

We were supposed to go out this weekend. She cancelled on me and said we could go next weekend. I'm confused. Should I walk away?

[Freetobe007]

NOOOOO! lol don't walk away!

There was this guy I dated and we didn't actually have a date until almost a month after we met lol two days from a month we met actually.

first date we planned - there was a huge snowstorm and we both agreed we didn't want each other driving in that :)

2nd date - my sister went into labor waaay early and I had to cancel literately within like 20 min of meeting up. she lost her baby :(

Things happen. don't cancel on her. Don't internalize it and think that YOU are the problem. Life throws things at us that we have to prioritize and put first. Be understanding :)

[Darkfairie17]

Don't worry too much! Wait to see what she says was the reason for cancelling. If she cancelled because of work or family or another really good reason. Give her a chance. Stuff does come up. However, if she flakes again and won't give you a good reason, that is the time to walk away.

[bobbi789]

I wouldn't fret! I just had to cancel on someone I really really like, because a last minute thing at work meant I had to change all of my plans :(

Give things a chance; since she suggested another date, it shows she's interested in getting to know you!

[TedStar]

it's not too bad. bad is if she cancels the date but then doesn't tell you, leaving you hurt and embarrassed.

[6842yvil]

If she hadn't suggested an alternated date I would tell you to walk away. However, she tried to set something else up with you which makes it seem like she actually had a valid reason for cancelling and that she still wants to go out with you.

[bluewang]

maybe things are not that bad. Perhaps she has some special reasons or some must-do things at that weekend. do not be upset,keep on and give her and yourself another chance

[LifeLover]

No, obviously something else came up. don't walk away. give her another chance. its good that she rescheduled, it means she still wants to see you.

[ALWAYSclassy]

It's not bad because she offered to reschedule. Something really could have come up. It's only bad when she cancels and doesn't try to reschedule.

[Anonymous]

The fact that she offered up an alternative date for you to go out suggests she's still interested. Text/call her & ask her if next Friday/Saturday/Sunday works & you hope that everything is okay with her.

[19katie96]

Don't be paranoid she only cancelled! She said she will meet you next week. Something might of came up. Just don't worry bout it

[Suemac]

I would give her a 2nd chance and see if she cancels. If she does cancel the 2nd one, then you should move on a find another girl for sure.

[girl_power111]

has she given you any reason for cancelling the date?

[girl_power111]

oh ok..she gave no reason. well don't sweat over it. something imp must have come up...maybe something personal so she couldn't tell u. if she does not meet you next weekend then just let it go

[Anonymous]

Ofcourse don't walk away. There must be something happened. Wait for her to call/text.

[Anonymous]

I guess it's alright, what was the reason for cancelling the date?

[Vasillilaw]

Why'd she cancel?

[Asker]

? No explanation. I didn't really ask either.

[Vasillilaw]

I would try one more time and if she cancels again then I'd say adios. Maybe she had a good reason for cancelling. You never know.