She say I’m Cute not handsome?

[Boykhiss]

can you help me I’m getting mad at this right now looks like I’m wasting my time after dating her for 8months

[PrettyPriya]

Wait a minute? You are mad because she didn't call you handsome and instead said you were cute? What is the issue? Do you have to be called a word that you prefer?

I'm so confused because I would take cute as a compliment and run with it. She obviously likes you and you are getting upset over her complimenting you. That is crazy to me.

You are totally overthinking one word and getting upset about it. I would seriously calm down and think about what is important here. Is what is important that she didn't choose your preferred word that you would like to be described?

Be thankful that she finds you cute and she isn't attracted to you anymore. There are far more important things to worry about in a relationship than what word your SO uses to describe your looks. I dread to think about what else you get upset over.

[Boykhiss]

Thanks a lot buddy but I used sweet words for her all the time which she knows I never thought she could say that but it’s fine now thanks

[LindsayR07]

Aww how cute! He's getting mad because she won't call him handsome...

Dude, if she's calling you cute, that's a good thing... Okay, you may not have that chisel-jaw look going on, but the most masculine man I've ever dated was 5'4 and CUTE... Oh boy was he cute! And I'd rather my man be cute than handsome any day!

Sure, he was a little babyfaced, but that just made us a beautiful couple in public, and trust me, he got me going in bed! If he were rugged and "handsome" I don't think I would have been so turned on...

Take it, run with it, embrace it. You don't have to be "handsome" to be a good looking man!

[Boykhiss]

Thanks a lot I was a bit nervous because I loved her and I used sweet words for her

[LindsayR07]

Like I said, roll. with it, it's a good thing. It means you get to be sweet on her instead of having to act like the hard ass all of the time... It also means she is proud to show you off because her girlfriends probably think you're cute too...

[Boykhiss]

I appreciate it thanks 😊

[Wise4myage]

Dude, get over it. She complimented you, stop over thinking it.

[Guy13]

That fine. No real difference

[Anonymous]

It’s a good thing, and you may not perceive it as a compliment but it’s likely to be a very good compliment. Doesn’t mean she doesn't find you masculine, as you said she’s been choosing you for some time now, you can tell her that you don’t appreciate this compliment, relationships can change if you communicate

[Avicenna]

You're good- nothing to worry about

[jimmy2]

No worries