She told her friend I am handsome?

[magicturtle]

A girl from my workplace told her girlfriend about me , she said I am handsome and polite. Does she like me? I mean I have heard that if girls talk between themselves about you they must find you attractive. The thing is she inititiates first, only if I reach first, but she does smile to me and gives me the eye contact and even checking me out. Before I know she found me handsome I asked her out and she said I am busy... and the 2nd time she said yes, but we haven't had the chance to go yet. My point is maybe she really likes me and just say, since I know she told that girl I am handsome. Or she is just unsure or playing games?

Please give me your honest opinion and what I should do next..

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Only I reach to her first not her to me, but she still asks me questions back and smiles.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, it definitely sounds like this girl is into you! Telling her friend that you're handsome is a pretty good sign that she thinks you're attractive.

Girls don't usually go around telling people that about a guy they're not interested in. The fact that she brought you up at all shows she's thinking about you.

And the eye contact, smiling, and checking you out when you're around is another good sign. Girls don't do that with guys they're not feeling.

The only thing that's a bit off is not reaching out to you first. But it could be she's just a little shy or playing hard to get.

I say try asking her out again, but this time more specific with a day/time. And see if she says yes for sure this time instead of maybe.

If she does say yes, it's pretty safe to assume she likes you back. And if things go well on the date, you can then ask her straight up if she's into you.

Keep the confidence up man! It's sounding very positive from what she's told her friend and the signals she's giving you. You got this!

[magicturtle]

thanks man

[Oliverlogan263]

No problem dude! Always happy to help a brother out. Let me know how it goes when you ask her out again. I'm sure she'll say yes this time. Just be confident and don't stress about it. You got this!

[Anonymous]

You are 21. You should have mastered this by now.