Are men interested in black women anymore?

Question

I'm black, and what people would call an "ice cream sandwich" basically, I dress posh, listen to FATM, hate modern styles, have an unhealthy obsession with Chuck Taylor's, and refuse to wear weave or even automatically act "ghetto". I feel my chances of getting a guy are worse than others because I have to beat black stereotypes men may think of when the meet me. On top of this, I have to watch out for men who're interested in me for racial clout.

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

It's questions like this that really give us Black people a bad rep. I saw a question by a Black dude on this same website basically talking about the same crap, and I had to check him for it.

Do NOT beg people to date you. If you want men to be interested in you, figure out what is wrong and fix it. Yes it is true that as a Black woman you will probably deal with some shit that other women will not have to deal with, but that won't go away and believe me that it's much better to just ignore it than let it pull you down. You can only work with what you have, and we have our own struggles. I'm also Black, so I would know.

Could this be a factor? Yes it could be, however it's not the be-all and end-all. There are plenty of Black women out there who have no problem attracting marriage-minded men, because they know how to play to their strengths and ignore those who have something to say about their ethnicity.

Try to look into other reasons for this lack of available men. Do you have extremely high standards? Do you look for guys to approach you in the wrong venues? Is it that you have a resting b face and seem unbothered? (Yes that's a thing). Whatever it maybe, find it and fix it.

LaneHale42 · Accepted Answer

I've met very few black women in my life because of my location. I'm not sure what an "Ice creme sandwich" is, but I have always thought that black women who act and talk similar to the white women I grew up around are very intriguing to me. I've always sympathized with the black women on television who claim to be bullied by other black people for acting "Too White" or "Not Black enough." I always wanted to tell those women that it's really hot when a black woman are "Too White on the inside" for lack of a better term.

AsaKyo · Accepted Answer

There's always gonna be guys interested in black women, no worries

MCheetah · Answer

If you're a classy woman, then no one but actual racists will care about your race whatsoever. The problem is, still finding a classy (and single) woman in 2022. Regardless of race.

Also, finding a single woman who isn't entitled or superficial. If you're a good woman, men will want you. I myself don't care about race, so yes, I'd definitely date a good black woman (especially a tall, thick one!) But, like I said, finding one who is worth it, is hard nowadays.

And to point out the elephant in the room, black women on average, tend to be the worst behaved and have the foulest attitudes, overall. I get socioeconomics plays a large role in this, but it's still a fact.

Valso · Answer

Well, I am. There aren't many black women in my country (not as many as in the States, but there are some). There's even one who's a mixture between white and black (sorry, I forgot the word in English for that; English ain't my first language), she's extremely hot and I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one around here who finds her very sexy. But as usual I won't tell her bc it's pointless. She's like this princess who escaped from a fairy tale into the real world and I'm nobody, so it's pointless to even try.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

Unfortunately, black women are the least desired demographic on the dating scene, but some guys may be interested in dating them (mostly other black people):

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Men are absolutely interested in black women, but there's a lot of negative interactions people have with black women that pollute the interactions before you even get a chance to talk with them. As a black woman, you really have to be on your game because a man isn't necessarily going to want to take a chance on you because he's got those other negative past experiences.

242plusInfinity · Answer

You don't have to accept that idea you know. by the way you shouldn't repeat, ice cream sandwich or Oreo etc. Black is everything under the sun. You are you. You can choose to accept any idea you wish. My suggestion would be to stop accepting ideas that don't serve you. You can reject it. Accept only what serves you.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, we're all on a Chinese girl kick, now. We don't do black chicks, anymore. That's SOOO last year!! We've all decided that, next year, we're ONLY doing Arabian chicks. That's just how we roll!

Berethor · Answer

Anymore? you implying that it was different in the past?

Sixgunsound · Answer

I don’t know any men who specifically are not interested in black women. The men I know are strange in that they treat people as individuals, not tokens in a faceless nameless Marxist dialectic.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh Black women. How you crack me up. If guys aren’t attracted to you it’s because of racism... ... and if they are attracted to you and pursue you it’s because of a racial fetish. 😂

JustADudePlayinADude · Answer

Personally, idgaf about a girl's race. I care if you meet some basic physical requirements (don't be overtly unhealthy) and have a good personality.

zagor · Answer

I have met some attractive, intelligent black women with nice personalities that I would be interested in, but there aren't a lot of black women in general around here.

Avicenna · Answer

Approach the guys you like. There’s someone out there for you.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I like black chicks but most issue here is, that they rarely "leave their racial circle", can be super self entiteled

Danger1213 · Answer

Damn everything you said makes me attracted to a black women like you. I do have a couple questions though

Boogie_01 · Answer

If you’re hot you’re hot if you’re not you’re not

maximumpower · Answer

Given the manner in which this is stated, there is no good answer.

Noodle_fan · Answer

there is no black women here except tourists , would to date em ( for first time)

TheAfrikan · Answer

All men have there own taste 👅, some will and some won’t. Period so no need to stress about that.

Harbringer26 · Answer

I wouldn't not be interested in you just because you're black.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know that black women had went out of style.

Anonymous · Answer

I have had bad experiences with black women. They tend to have a chip on their shoulder.

Goddessmandy · Answer

Many men go for black women. Why is this a question

Anonymous · Answer

They seem to be interested.

Fuentes · Answer

In Cali a lot of black women are taken.

legalboxers · Answer

-blinks- you bougie or other

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Yup, always will be

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Yes of course

jimmy2 · Answer

I would love you

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they are

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