Are your gut instincts usually right?

[Anonymous]

In terms of speculating that someone might have romantic feelings for you?

[Sandeeppingping]

In terms of most things yea, especially social dynamics, most times someone says something and I just pick up on it and feel something's wrong even when I don't necessarily understand why I feel like that, in terms of romantic relationships I usually do but I've had regrets that it was many times after the fact (she wanted me to kiss her I didn't even notice then when I went home happy af because of our vibe I'm remembering moments then I'm like ohhhh shit)

[Asker]

Even in terms of romantic interest too, are your instincts correct?

[FilmGuy93]

I think so... some women have gotten really aggressive after rejecting me though, so I also might be wrong.

I usually run this stuff by other women in my life though, so it's not like I'm only relying on my gut instincts. Those other women tell me that the girl is interested. Then, when the girl says she isn't and makes a point of getting super weird and aggressive with me, I'm kinda just left wondering what happened.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s hella awkward of her.

[FilmGuy93]

Yep... it's extremely awkward.

Talking to women honestly just gets exhausting at a certain point because you just never really know what you're getting into. I know that a lot of women feel the same way about talking with guys, so the feeling definitely goes both ways. It would be one thing if I didn't have receipts and the go-ahead from (sometimes dozens of) other women, but I generally do because people have called me out and tried to question my behavior.

I've gotten to the point of documenting the hell out of every interaction with women in that early stage of talking, because women will just randomly change their minds and try to act like I'm some asshole trying to force myself on her.

[FilmGuy93]

It literally got to the point where my own mother questioned whether I was misreading women's signals. Thank god I keep reciepts.

[Asker]

All of what you’re saying is very true, by the way.

[FilmGuy93]

Thank you! I’m glad to hear you say that I’m on the mark

[Asker]

Well, I’m telling the truth I guess.

[maximumpower]

Yes.
Have been lied to - quite successfully - a few times, tho.

[Asker]

That’s not good.

[maximumpower]

She was good at it - for awhile.
Now she's out of my life.
She will be richer for awhile, but I'll recover and she'll never have more than she did before she filed.

[Asker]

So, you guys are divorced?

[maximumpower]

Yyyyyyyyyyyyyyup
Good riddance, too.

[Asker]

All the best to you! 🙏🏽

[Anonymous]

Mine never have been. In fact this is why I simply don't ask women out anymore. I'm ALWAYS wrong.

[d3n0939]

That is my specialty

[Asker]

So they must be correct a lot of the time, right?

[d3n0939]

unfortunately, I try to defy it. And I have suffered a lot by defying. they were worsening my pain, because I saw it coming

[d3n0939]

I was referring to this: "That is my specialty"

@missgingles

[Missgingles]

I see @d3n0939

[Asker]

What was worsening your pain?

[d3n0939]

Because I trusted them even after feeling they were not the ones they were pretended to be. I let myself to be a fool, because of their tears.

[Asker]

Ohh no. 😔

[d3n0939]

thanks for following me

[Asker]

I don’t think I follow you on here.

[d3n0939]

But I think so. Hence why it is my specialty lol

[Asker]

Lmao 🤣

[d3n0939]

And you are using the app... not the web version :)

[Fryday_Knight]

They never failed me. But I failed them.

[Asker]

Your instincts?

[Fryday_Knight]

Yes. Sometimes they signal that something is wrong and I think... No way and I shoot myself in the foot because the instincts were right.

[Asker]

Hahaha the way you worded this made me laugh.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope I miss hints all the time

[Asker]

Oh damn. Did you get better with getting hints over time?

[BarryLiverstone]

A bit better but it doesn’t seem like many girls are blunt and direct. It’s like they will hover around me but wait for me to do something.

What do you do when you like someone to clearly tell them?

[Asker]

You’re right. Girls do behave that way when they are shy.

[BarryLiverstone]

A lot of times they will tell me that I’m very tall but that’s not a clear indication to me yk

[Asker]

Yeah look, height shouldn’t matter.

[BarryLiverstone]

We agree

[Asker]

🤷🏽‍♀️👍🏽🙏🏽

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty for prayers

[Asker]

Anytime 🙏🏽

[Zolly99999]

Usually on everything but romantic stuff

[Asker]

Oh no. 😂

[Zolly99999]

Yeah... I got it wrong a few times. Lol

[Asker]

Lmao haven’t we all been there, to be honest?

[Zolly99999]

No kidding right lol

[Asker]

Mhm lmao 🤣

[Anonymous]

Yes, a decent amount of the time.

[Asker]

Has this occurred with you? If so, give me an example. 😊

[Opinion Owner]

It’s like a silent tap your shoulder that’s telling you to make a decision that you know is right, but for some reason. You doubt it.

[Asker]

That’s the case with me. I know when someone is into me but I keep thinking what if they’re not and I’m overthinking everything.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s why it never bad to follow your gut feeling.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s not, until your brain says otherwise when you overanalyse everything.