Why do women give dating advice tht doesn't work?

[Deserter]

I've had more success with women by not following their advice

[JamesDiaz11]

Because their perception of themselves, and what they want is WAYYYY off. Women have a self-perception of being good people... They're not- they're survivors, whose survival instincts are primal, and antiquated. They WILL get under a strong, dominant man who treats them like shit, because this guy isn't someone to be messed with, and can protect them (and the resulting kids).

Sure, they like being treated well, and romantically, but they'll fk the dominant guy, and any dating advice to the contrary is nonsense.

[chicosuave]

Because women give advice by there logical believes and not by there emotional actions. Think of it this way. Women respond by there emotional feelings. They may have a idea logically on what they want in a man but there actions say other wise. They could be sleeping with dudes who don't give a dam about them but they all say they want a nice guy who is independent and fit. But the reality is that they are sleeping with broke guys who live under there parents basement and treats them like crap. A guy who drives them in a emotional roller coaster. they love those feelings. that's what they respond to. They are hardwired to it. Or else they would not be complaining about it because they are going through those types of experiences so there logical mind says they want better. So they give logical advice to what they want not what they actually respond to. There's this metaphor " the fishermen doesn't ask the fish how to fish them, you ask the fisherman how to fish"

[Anonymous]

Because there's what women think they want then there's what women ACTUALLY want.

This is why women generally pick so many bad guys. Because women generally don't see guys for what they really are. They have to learn over time to use thier heart less and use thier brain more. Any guy with any experience with women knows it's 10% who you actually are and 90% what you say and how you make her feel. The best way to get women is learn how to lie really well. Like to the point that you actually believe you. Then it's a matter of using what works over time honing it and getting better at it. Not all women are the same but all women have thier tendencies. And those will always be the same.

[FilmGuy93]

It's because you're listening to the wrong part of the advice. When women give dating advice, they aren't telling you what specifically to do because they know that all women (just like all men) are different. What appeals to her, might not appeal to another woman. So what they do is they're trying to tell you how something made them feel. They're telling you what the significance of something was; not whether you should do that exact thing.

[Deserter]

Lmao they essentially tell you to simp and that works on no girl

[FilmGuy93]

That sounds like you just lack a sense of healthy boundaries.

[Deserter]

No, it sounds like the advice doesn't work and you cope by attacking me

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, so where do you draw the line between being nice and being a simp?

[Deserter]

Simping is to kiss ass

[FilmGuy93]

Okay, can you give me examples, so I'm clear about what that means?

[Deserter]

I can't help you if you dont know what ass kissing is bro

[FilmGuy93]

I know what kissing ass is, I'm trying to see if you know what it is. Because if you think women are recommending that you simp for the girls you want to date; there is clearly something being lost in translation.

[Deserter]

Women literally defend simping and tell guys to simp, stop gaslighting me

[FilmGuy93]

Every woman I've spoken to who actually wants to date men has told me that simping is a huge turn off. So if you're being told that you need to simp for women, something's not adding up with my life experience.

[Deserter]

Yes, cause you're lying

[FilmGuy93]

Ok, pease answer my question. What is an example of behavior you think is simping, and what is a behavior that you would just consider being nice?

[Deserter]

Stop gaslighting me "you think is simping"? Ask again, but not like an asshole this time

[FilmGuy93]

Okay. What is an example of simp behavior? What is an example of nice behavior?

[Deserter]

Nice behaviour is being friendly. Simp behaviour is buying her flowers and gifts when you aren't even together, putting her on a pedestal, never saying no, being unconditionally nice

[FilmGuy93]

And women have told you to behave that way to other women?

[Deserter]

I've heard women say it to other men, yes

[FilmGuy93]

Women want to be a compliment to a man’s life, not the focus. When women tell men to buy flowers and that kind of thing, they are giving that advice with the assumption that those gifts and that doting is going to be an occasional and special thing. The problem with simps is that they don’t make the doting special.

[Guy13]

😂…. At least you figured out a working model. Do opposite of advised 🎉

[Deserter]

More or less

[Guy13]

👍👍

[Anonymous]

Same here. I have since realized the best practice is to observe what women actually do rather than what they say, because they are often very different things.

[007kingifrit]

simple, like most people women do not know themselves

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/NRpRoCfTSDk

[Smegskull]

Advice is conscious/intellectual, dating is subconscious/instinctual.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I don’t know much about dating advice, so I reckon many women have that in common with me.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Never take any advice from women.