How come a lot of women give men dating advice that doesn't actually help them?

[Anonymous]

[JamesDiaz11]

Women aren't good at giving dating advice. Not to women, and especially not to men. They're simply too emotional and bias to view themselves objectively, which is why nearly every girl will consider themselves the exception to any rule (most referring to themselves as 10's).

When they give advice they're not offering a strategy as much as telling a story of how it should work, how women should act, and how they'd like to be viewed as valuing- none of which is true.

Women cannot explain why they date who they date, nor why they're attracted to certain things and not others (i. e. nice guys). They'll break their own "rules" and fk a guy on the first night- meanwhile ignoring a guy who checks all of the boxes she's articulated she wants filled.

[inhua]

what sounds good on paper doesn't work in practice.

quite simply, no amount of romantic gestures, no amount of loyalty, honesty, integrity, no amount of good heart, good character or good personality traits, matters if you don't meet her bare minimum of physical attractiveness.

the best advice they could give you to tell you to lose weight or gain muscle and even then, the gym won't increase the length of your spine, or fix a crooked smile, or morph any irregular facial features or widen your collar bone and shoulders.

[jennifer_bloom]

Good advice does not make up for a lifetime of bad choices. Some guys do nothing good with their lives and expect one piece of advice to change everything.

[Asker]

But often times what women dont like or find unattractive is what actually attracts them. Women dont know what they want

[jennifer_bloom]

I think attraction is like a cake or soup recipe, all ingredients matter but sometimes one or two change everything. And people like different flavours.

[Asker]

So take everything a woman says with a grain of salt

[jennifer_bloom]

No, attraction has more than one factor. I’ve liked very short guys, fat guys, anorexic guys, stupid guys, broke guys, depressed guys, religious guys from other faiths etc… their good qualities exceeded their shortcomings

[Asker]

Whatever you say 👌

[Midgetmcwidget]

I never offer advice, because I'm not involved in the situation. People always add their slant on the two involved and I'd they don't like them they're I'll make it a mission to give bad advice, lie and do anything to keep them apart. I have seen this and experienced it. All in the name of 'helping' because they liked the guy who was interested in someone else.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Sorry a few typos, if they don't like them they give bad advice. They will make it a mission, I wouldn't EVER DO THAT. It's why I never tell people if I like someone

[Pegases]

"Single women keep women single" is a phrase that I've found to be true. Women do not give great dating in most cases. However, one woman that gives great advice goes by the name of "love dorsey".

[Jamie05rhs]

Because women want to give the appearance that they're helping, but they don't want to actually help. Because, in their mind, if they actually help the guy, then they're taking him off the market, and that reduces their options.

[Anonymous]

It's that the men don't do the things we tell them. We know what it would take for a guy to be attractive to us, so we tell you, and then you don't do it, so you're still not attractive to us.

[Asker]

You dont ask a fish how to catch a fish. You ask the fishermen

[slatyb]

As opposed to men giving unhelpful advice to women?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Girls tend to do a lot of virtue signaling...

[Asker]

That's a fact

[FilmGuy93]

Because women have ridiculously charitable impressions of other women.

[Anonymous]

The problem is men can't handle the truth, so advice goes in one ear and out the other.

[Asker]

Men have to live in reality

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for proving my point.

[Asker]

How am i proving your point?

[LimitedBenefits101]

Don't ever take advice from women whether its relationship related or business.

Worst of the worst.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps you can give one of the examples that didn't help you.

[User3191989]

Cause generally, any "yes" from a woman, usually means "no"

[Anonymous]

Because women THINK what they say is actually what they want. They'd ven advise a guy on how to get them wrong.🤣🤣🤣

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Because women don’t even know what they want