Why do guys who have never been w/ a lot of women try to provide advice on getting women?

[Vegasrunner]

[Anonymous]

Well depends on how you look at it. Just cause a man has been w a lot of Women does t means he’s successful. You have to ask why has he been w that many women. If he’s just looking to sleep around that’s his choice. But a number of men aren’t looking to do the same so why would you take advice from a man who loves his life that way. If you’re looking to have a long lasting relationship, I think I’d talk to someone who’s been more successful in the way of long term relationships. So it depends on what you’re looking for as a man in being w a woman. Do you want something long lasting or just one night stands? Depending on which way you look at it, both men are successful. My dad has been w my mom for 40 something years, I’m almost 47, that’s what I want. To me he’s had a successful life in the way of marriage, a family, etc. So that’s who I look to.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe the man who has been w numerous women can’t maintain a relationship for whatever reason. So you could say he’s a loser who shouldn’t be giving advice on women.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous A man's value is reflected in the amount of women he can obtain a woman's value is reflected in the quality of woman she can retain.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner Men aren't judged on the ability to maintain a relationship with one woman. If a man has been with numerous women than society understands he's doing something right.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m pretty sure there’s more to it than just how many women he can sleep w.. I’m sure many of us know a man who can get a lot of women but hasn’t amounted to a damn thing in his life. If you think that’s what determines a man’s value I don’t know what to tell you.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Actually no, any man that can get with a "lot of women" has actually proven that he's done something right.

[Opinion Owner]

lol so you say. Then these women end up pregnant alone. I’m sure you know women who ended up in that situation. Doesn’t mean the man is valuable.

[incorrected]

Who cares, and who is making that value judgement anyway? Are their judgements relevant to you? Do they matter?

[Vegasrunner]

@incorrected TY for that response. Not sure what that has to do w/original question. Are you sure you responded to correct post?

[incorrected]

They like to parrot what they wish to believe, which is usually been the result of their own search for whatever they're defining as "success". Men who are only really concerned with getting laid will parrot different advice to those who are seeking something more genuine and long term.

When it comes to those who have succeeded in getting what they want, they usually don't recognise the importance of things like looks in their own success, so they will give advice from personal experience that may not work for someone much uglier than they are. There's no guarantee that what worked for one man will work for another.

Sometimes a successful man's advice will be less useful than the advice of an unsuccessful man who properly analysed the problem and accounted for your specific difficulties.

[Vegasrunner]

@incorrected I'm what industry to people utilize templates that have proven to fail?

[Anonymous]

For the same reason a guy who has never won a PGA tournament is a swing coach for Tiger Woods. Just because you can't do (or more accurately don't do in this case) doesn't mean you can't teach.

Getting women takes a rurhlessness that not ever guy possesses.

Not to mention there's a big f***ing difference between GETTING and KEEPING women. A guy can get a woman with a 100 dollar bill.😆 That doesn't mean she'd be worth keeping or be kept. It also doesn't mean every woman is gettabble. The one that are are called low hanging fruit for a reason.

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous Huh? There's millions of Golf Tournaments, to be a swing coach one must have success at some level. Getting women takes persistence not ruthlessly but you wouldn't know this unless you've had success w/ women. How many women have you been with?

[Opinion Owner]

Define "been with". Dated? Long term relationships? F***ed?

And yes, "successful". But I think most would agree Tiger had been a bit better than just, "successful"

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Lol, you're a man supposedly, so the only thing that matters is the number of women you've had sex w/. Women are judged by their ability to keep one quality man. Men are judged by the number of women they have sex with.

[Opinion Owner]

That's a real immature outlook. I could understand someone holding this view if they were in high school. But by adulthood every guy has generally dipped thier with at least once. What would it matter how many more times than another? No one is winning a prize for it. And for a woman what is a quality man? And what good does having one do you if neither of them are happy together.

I understand man. Both genders have thier tendencies and drivers. But I think you're being far too black and white about this.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner I think I see your confusion. Shaming language is simply a deflection tactic typically used when someone is not able to rebut a point. You "feeling" something is immature isn't relevant and TBH a female trait, you would understand this if you had more experience with women. If you haven't been w/ many, then it demonstrates a lack of value on your end. A "Quality" man is a HV value man that brings value to the world and is respected by other men of value. You can feel how you feel however w/out having any real world experience with women, your beliefs are only based on feelings which is kind of my point.

[Opinion Owner]

A man doesn't need to prove to other men that he is a man. A man just is. I wish you luck on your quest.👍

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinion Owner That is position typically held by men of lower value, incapable of leading or attracting women. It sounds like you should save the luck for yourself

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever you need to tell yourself man. I'm secure in my manhood.

[Vegasrunner]

@Opinon Owner I'm sure you are, however that doesn't change the fact that you have had limited experience with women

[Anonymous]

I've been with a lot of girls since I was 13 and a lot of girls are different about different things. I try to give information about things I see in common, such as girls seem to value confidence and the ability to make them feel comfortable over anything else.

[Juxtapose]

What do you say of a guy who married his high school sweetheart and was only ever with one woman? I can already find holes in your logic by just thinking about it for 5 seconds.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose There's nothing for him to say, he hasn't had experience with many women

[Juxtapose]

I'd say he's succeeded more than other people. He only needed one try to find his true love.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose That's a female metric, no man in the history of the world is seen as HV because he found "true love" however many men have built entire businesses off their ability to attract multiple women.

[incorrected]

Somehow, I don't think you have access to the value judgements made on men in the whole history of the world. Modern influencers capitalising on male romantic loneliness are by far not the history of the world. Promiscuity used to be judged harshly in men and women in more religious times.

[Vegasrunner]

@incorrected Are you making the argument that you don't? Promisuity has always been judged harshly in women. A man capable of being promiscuous has been celebrated throughout history because of how difficult it is to be.

[incorrected]

Find me an example of that from the 1500s.

[Vegasrunner]

@incorrected TY for admitting you don't know. Don't be embarrassed by your ignorance, it's a common trait of the inexprienced. What do I get for educating you?

[Juxtapose]

Sex & money is nothing compared to finding your life mate without much trouble. The emotions are more rewarding & pleasurable.

[Juxtapose]

And that one person will be really familiar with your body so you won't need a lot of women.

[incorrected]

If you knew "all of history" you'd be able to give examples. You don't. You're talking out of your butt.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose Lol, tell me you're a woman disguised as a man.

[Vegasrunner]

@incorrected Name me the man in history that is famous for being w/ one woman?

[Juxtapose]

I am my own person.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose That is so unfortunate for you.

[Juxtapose]

Oh yes, how dare I make my own standards.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose If I understand the original conversation it's you criticizing male standards correct?

[Juxtapose]

Yeah cus men aren't a monolith.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose Not sure what yoy think that has to do with the original question. The world operates in generalities, so what one random person believes isn't relevant and in general all of this is true which is why you feel the need to provide your perspective. Furthermore, because of your admitted inexperience, your view holds even less weight.

[Juxtapose]

Judging people as a collective is what shallow-minded bigots do. To judge all men in a generality is to take away their individuality.

You have a rather crude & sophomoric view of relationships. You think establishing a harem and getting a high body count makes you good at relationships. It just proves you are promiscuous, that's really it. How deep is your relationship with each of those women? Could you stand their presence if they were men? Could they be your deepest friends still?

You are a merchant of lust, not love.

[Vegasrunner]

@Juxtapose I realize this is an emotional subject for you, so your need to use shaming language to deflect from the fact that I'm correct is understandable. It also validates the original question. If you lack experience w/ women what would qualify you to provide advice to men about relationships? Furthermore if the world operates in generalities and most men use quantity as the metric of success w/ women, why would your antedoctal evidence be relevant. I understand hearing this information frustrates you, however name calling doesn't do anything to establish your point.

[oldpigg]

In reality, young people today prefer to do more important things than looking for sluts, and we recommend the same.

[HusamRocks]

They have untested theories and also facts which doesn't mean they've tried them theirselves but others did 👍🏻

[NicholasRedone]

Its a girls ask guys site and app lol which I always prefer Women Ask Guys lol 😆😅

[Vegasrunner]

@nicholasredone Fair but if I guy hasn't been successful with women what value can he really bring?

[NicholasRedone]

Shrug. "I don't make the rules sir and I don't write the rules" + I'm just a humble, GAGer.
Anyways, off to bed 😁😆 bed 🛏️ night zzz. , 💤😴

[Vegasrunner]

@nicholasredone Ah so you're saying you're confused? I understand.

[NicholasRedone]

@Vegasrunner nope, just another typical male who thinks the site would survive and sustain as Women Ask Guys also known as WAG lol 😹😆

[Vegasrunner]

@nicholasredone If you're happy with being typical than good for you.