Is it okay that my girlfriend blocks me everytime she gets upset?

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My girlfriend and me are in a LDR and in the pas month everytime if i upset her or she gets mad at me for even the smallest things like complimenting her, she proceededs to just block on everything.

Is this okay? I don't like this, i have talked to her about this but there is nothing she changes. I feel like this is childish and also bc she wants to ahve a upper hand on the relationship

SueShe · Accepted Answer

That sounds like a person that cannot cope with criticism and prefers to shut out anyone that does not agree with her. Even if this blocking is temporary, it is not a healthy behavior.

That is indeed the behavior of a child that has never had anyone properly educating her on issues of life. At age 15, she should have come out of this phase of tamper tantrum a long time ago. To me, it shows that her parents always agreed with everything she said because they did not want to have to face her childish behavior.

You have only 2 options here.

1. Terminate this toxic relation - she will not learn now and she will certainly not learn later in life that not everyone should agree with her.

2. Have a serious talk with her but again, since you are in a LDR, this will not lead you anywhere because the second you criticize her, she will cut you off.

Sour-rose · Accepted Answer

No, she's just being a little bitch. Ey, how about a little story?

once upon a time, a guy in the same situtation had this girl who did the same. And after that block, the guy said "maaayn, fuk this shite." Found ANOTHER girl who didn't play these games, married her, and this bitch came down and was like why you find someone else? And he was like because fk yo shi, you deal with me like an adult or not. And you blocked me so I'm done with you. "A block is temporary! You should have waited for me!" exact words i know for a fact. Well that man is now happier. The end. <3

So yeah, make your decision quick about this. :)

CallmeTheKnight · Accepted Answer

Well you have to understand this entirely... You're both still children and she's acting completely childish by ceasing contact when she's upset.

I'm gonna tell you this now young brother... if someone's willing to block you, then the relationship should end. Why pursue something thats not gonna working out well?
You're over here wondering is it ok and starting to worry and obsess... not healthy young brother, not healthy at all. That's one of the ways toxic relationships begin. Call things off with her and save yourself from anymore stress like this and focus on yourself

bolverk · Accepted Answer

No it is not OK, its time to 'Flip the script' Dude, the next time she goes off on one - ignore her, don't try to talk to her about anything, do not block her just go radio silent, if she does this over the slightest thing them maybe its time to walk away, as you say she is doing this to be dominant in the relationship, its time to show her you do not need her, you are young move on with life.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

It is very childish, in fact it is down right dangerous to the relationship, because what if you block her too when she blocks you? Now she'd have no way to get in touch with you when done.

Dangerous game, sounds like you both need a better way to work through issues, or time to move on.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

That's highly immature and ''internet spoilt''. But ''LDR'' is as well. So you partly deserve it :) As a suggestion: try a real life with real people.

Avicenna · Answer

It’s not unheard of, but it’s a sign of an unhealthy relationship

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

She sounds like a massive douche. Get rid. You're only 15 so you have all the time in the world to find a girlfriend who treats you right.

Guy13 · Answer

High maintenance and Drams queen headache 🤕

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not ok. Stop wasting time with her and date someone local.

Wise4myage · Answer

No its not ok, and its very childish. But you have to expect this to happen in young relationships.

maximumpower · Answer

She's being childish - like holding her breath or stomping her foot. That's not a healthy relationship. Why do you even bother?

Vegasrunner · Answer

It's ok because you continue to enable the behavior.

dophix · Answer

No!! It's a redflag ! I find it toxic ! (I'm a girl )

admles · Answer

This is extremely childish and unacceptable behaviour.

SidiouslyInVader · Answer

Just how she deals with anger She needs alone time.

exitseven · Answer

it shows a lack of maturity.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

That's really unhealthy

Iron_Man · Answer

She needs to stop doing that

Is it okay that my girlfriend blocks me everytime she gets upset?

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