My girlfriend blocks me everytime we argue should I move on?

[Anonymous]

Whenever we argue and she does not like it she says goodbye and blocks me for 3 days at least and then came back saying she misses me , i told her please stop doing that and let us communicate she said no i won't stop doing that.

why you think she is doing that , what should i do?

[Summeroflove]

Well yes you should. While it’s completely normal to need time to calm down it’s not normal to give long term silent treatment.

If and when someone wants to leave your life just let them go no matter how hard it is. It’s the true ones who will stick by you no matter what (unless you did something)

You cannot change her or force her to do anything. You have expressed what you’re wanting and she doesn’t care. That means you need to choose to either keep putting up with it or just leave.

I think this needs to be over with. She sounds toxic and someone who can’t communicate and isn’t happy no matter what.

[Anonymous]

I would. I don't play that 💩. You block me, I block you permanently.

[HollyK21]

If you’ve flat out asked her not to block you and instead communicate (which is the fair and adult thing to do) and her response is that she won’t stop, then yeah, be done. Fights happen in relationships, arguments happen, but it doesn’t mean she gets to just check out every time. Being in a committed relationship means commitment to working through your problems as to reconcile and move forward. If she isn’t interested in doing that then she sounds way too immature for someone like yourself who wants to communicate.

[Summeroflove]

I agree! Needing time to calm down is fine. Fights happen (to a point) but he can’t make her change. He can choose to find someone better or at least be alone in peace.

I get it’s hard letting go like in the other post with someone. But people are so happy once they get through the grief stages that they aren’t wasting anymore time with someone like that.

[Summeroflove]

Cowards don’t like to communicate though. They just want to scrub themselves of any responsibility or accountability.

[whereismyjohnny]

Yeah. Because she is immature and can’t communicate.

[BarryLiverstone]

When you talk to her on dates and hang out, why did she say she blocked you?

[Anonymous]

Move on but find a normal relationship next time.

[thearchjoker]

If she can't talk than you must walk

[jahaims]

Duh.