Mine is physical touch and acts of service. Like I love cuddles and kisses and I also love when someone cooks something for me and especially if they feed me themselves and I love when someone gives me a massage or I am cold so they give me their jacket or put my hair behind my ear so it isn’t in my face or do small helpful things that mean a lot to me. I’m an introvert so I like to be indoors and at home a lot and have private time with my SO and that’s why watching a film and cuddling is the perfect thing to do and then anything thoughtful they do apart from that is just the icing on the cake.
Yeah those are wonderful things, id love it if someone would do small things for me it would make me so happy even if all they did was help me out when I'm feeling down just whispering something nice in my ear works just being there for me telling me it'll be alright even if there not completely sure because then it makes it better and easier for me when it might not work out or if it does ya know whatever the problem may have been or even if they just like you said gave me their jacket when it's cold or just cuz because I feel like the small things matter more than the bigger things because I believe the smaller things guys do for me leads to the bigger thing which means how can I appreciate the big thing they did but not the small ones that's kinda mean in my opinion but hey I'm weird and different that way so whatever. I'd be happy if my man was just there for me even if he didn't help with anything because he would still be supportive ya know and I'd still have him.
Ell oh ell! “Love Language” is a myth invented to SELL BOOKS. It hasn’t changed the world any more than any of the millions of other schemes sold to lonely and broken people previously. In fact, if you look at the ACTUAL numbers, long-term relationships, engagements and marriages have steadily declined since 1992, the same year that ridiculous book was published. You do the math. Actually, they’ve been declining since before then. But if that douche bag solved the riddle, wouldn’t things have turned around with such insurmountable insight? Ell oh ell!
I am 100% with you I love the feeling of touch I love touching because you can do it in such a manner it just melts same with words I think that's the reason why I love to role play so much is because with words you can make somebody feel something so deep and as if it's really happening it's very beautiful thing but all the above on that chart I do everyday that's just because who I am and I enjoy it all because I love giving that same feeling to somebody else
I'd say physical touch is my strongest one, I love cuddles getting and giving them and kisses are so cute it makes me laugh and smile just getting them and I LOVE giving them only if they want it though consent to any kind of physical touch is something I want to give my partner though I don't have one which makes me sad but oh well. I'd say words of affirmation is something I love doing because it helps me and it helps the person I'm saying it to.
Definitely gift giving and acts of service for me. Physical touch is last for me, but it’s not that I don’t like it, it’s just something that would take me a while to do with friends/partners.
I guess its touching cause I am pretty bad I always enjoy tickling and pinching my exes in places that would make them flinch. I also use to love smacking their asses when I was bored and wanted their attention
Physical touch and acts of service, maybe a little words of affirmations too
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Same as you. Physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation. All of those are required for me to feel loved. Acts of service and gifts are sweet, but not required.
