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It’s been 2 years that I’m in a relationship and we respect each other go on expensive dates. We kiss hug and hold hands that’s all we do. I want a bit more than that
First of all, I know a lot of these religious people are always like no sex before marriage. If that you then fine, but if not then what the hell are you waiting for?
I lost my virginity quite early at the age of 13 when me and my mother moved into my stepdads house after my mother divorced my father. My stepdad had an elder daughter who was around 15 at the time. About a week after I moved in, I had sex for the first time with my stepsister. I thought she was hot as hell anyway and she was desperate to get laid and lose her virginity, so we helped each other out. We even had a secret relationship together and continued to have sex with each other for about 2 years before she fell in love with someone at her high school.
But that's my virginity story, if you really want to hold on to your virginity but be intimate at the same time then you could try roleplay, have oral sex, dry hump each other while wearing your underwear, try anal sex, spoon each other when you get into bed at night. The possibilities are endless. But as I said earlier, you're 22 years old, the majority of the population have lost their virginity by that age.
When I was 22, I was receiving phone calls from girls that I had a one night stand with ages ago trying to pin fatherhood on me because they just gave birth to a baby that they didn't plan on having. Luckily I wasn't the father of any of these babies.
You've also got to think of what your boyfriend wants. He's most likely getting agitated and frustrated that you're not having sex with him but he hides his frustration and stays with you because he loves you. He may be quite okay with tossing one off by himself now and then to sexually satisfy himself but he won't wait forever. By holding back from having sex with him, eventually even the strongest of bonds will crumble and he'll go looking elsewhere for sexual gratification and then leave you heartbroken because he cheated.
Just get a nonlegal marriage. Stop letting the government control you sex life. If you are religious then get a nonlegal marriage. If you want to marry this guy introduce him to the concept. Marriage can be whatever you want. by the way God doesn't care. I'd urge you to read the book "The Edinburgh Lectures" if you've never been exposed to anything but traditional points of view.
Stop waiting to live your life. You only have a little left.
I don’t know what to do💔 How to get this non legal marriage? He doesn’t even talk about proposing fuck💔
Depends on what kind of things you’re comfortable with. Are you comfortable grinding/dry humping with clothes on? What about just touching each other while making out? If you’re comfortable, you can even try cuddling naked (or with your undergarments on) and maybe even try video call sex/masturbate while watching each other.
We meet in his car and restaurants
You can definitely do any of the above in his car 😌
But how do I tell him?
Tell him that even though you don’t want to have sex, doesn’t mean that you can’t explore each other’s bodies. Ask him to touch you more, or better yet, go ahead and make the first move yourself (I’m sure he’ll appreciate that)
How to do the first move?
Maybe the next time after you leave the restaurant, just jump on the back seat of his car and ask him to join you. Or tell him “before you drop me off, I want to spend some more private time with you” then park somewhere more private and jump on the back seat.
You can start by rubbing his thighs and just sit close to him - hopefully he’ll get the hint. If you’re brave enough then just guide his hand, place his hand in places where you’d want him to touch.
Hmmmmm nice thanks girl❤️
No worries luv, good luck! ❤️
I’ll let you know about it if it worked can you add me please?
Sure thing! I’ll follow you
Rub his penis, suck his penis, let him finger you, makeout, grind on each other naked or with underwear, etc. There's lots of things you can do that doesn't have to be straight up sex, I'd assume.
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I guess you’ve to explore slowly without words, take it step by step. Don’t have to tell him anything. Just go with the flow. When you kiss, take to next level, then see how you’re feeling. If you like it take it another next and keep on exploring. If there is anything that you or he points or talk about it. Its not easy at first. But this will simply works.
I will not until he put that ring on my finger
How sweet!!! A lot of men including me doesn’t have a finger in the first place to put a ring. If such so then you said were wanting more than kiss and hug. Since you’ve clarity on what exactly you want, go forward in that and stop it where it goes beyond your convenience.
I don’t know if this is going to help. It’s just a try.
This happened with my girl too. She is not comfortable for a lot a things yet she wanted few more things. I didn’t knew how exactly she wanted or what she wanted. After couple of tires which didn’t end up well, and killed our mood, she and I had to sit down and talk with each other clearly. Limitations and boundaries are also a good set up. Then I knew how to respect her and give her what she wanted. We both happy.
What’s the insurance? That we’re going to be together? I’m still a virgin!
Make out with him, kisding and caressing, and stick to your limits. If he tries to go beyond your limits, politely stop him. For example, if his hand wanders down between your legs, politely move it back up to your breast.
Can I let his hand in between my legs?
Of course you can/. I was just using that as possibly one of your limits. If it's not, feel free to guide his hand there.
Can he finger me without having sex?
You can let him do whatever you want... it's your choice. Sounds like you'd like him to pleasure you in every way possible, short of intercourse.
Without sex of course
Ain’t fingering a type of mutual masturbation? Masturbation ain’t sex.
Okay
@HippieVeganJewslim Masturbating isn’t sex because you’re doing it to yourself. lol
@clampfan101 self masturbation, yes. Partner masturbation, no, but still not sex.
@HippieVeganJewslim I don’t believe partner masturbation exists.
@clampfan101 Nu, I did it to Koko in the loony bin.
@HippieVeganJewslim Define partner masturbation. Chances are I’m just going to see it as a form of sex.
@clampfan101 I fingered Koko is one form of partner masturbation. If Koko would have pulled the foreskin off and on my schlong it would have been another.
What if while fingering he wants to penetrate his dick?💔
To go beyond that could be tricky. You could satisfy each other with hands or orally but there's a high chance that frustration or penetrative sex would quickly follow. However, it depends on your moral outlook and your boyfriend's willpower
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Doing more than that would turn you into a technical virgin, not truly innocent anymore.
I don’t mind
Not sex no way bruh
Wait until marriage
I’m still 21!!! I don’t want to be a wife this early? Wtf?
Nooooooooo
spooning, half-spoon, cheek-to-cheek, sweetheart cradle, honey moon hug, leg hug, lap pillow.
It happened once that we were kissing and then he started to kiss my neck and then he lifted my top and sucked my nipples and then I stopped him saying that he didn’t respect me and didn’t talk to him for a month and he asked for forgiveness and that he would never do this again but infact this happened last year and now I miss him sucking my nipples it felt so nice
Well, you must let him know it's okay to do it. He can't read your mind, and he doesn't want to get charged with rape.
But how?
Just role-play it. Tell him, "does my baby need a feeding" and poke out one of your breasts or whatever. Just let him know foreplay is okay, but no intercourse or sex.
But what if he wants more?
I mean, you love him, and I think by now you should know whether or not to trust him. If you can't trust him, he might not be the right guy for you.
Can you accept my request?
I need to talk to you privately
I’ve been wondering this question for years, and don’t have a girlfriend to discuss it with… Different people have different opinions on what counts as sex.
Yeah I agree
The best I can say is follow your heart. Good luck.
What do you mean by that? Kissing? Mutual masturbation? Oral sex?
I’m still a virgin
I’ve read that oral sex doesn’t break virginity. You can do oral sex while still being virgin, but STIs do exist in respect of oral sex. I did all three without breaking my partner’s virginity.
@HippieVeganJewslim There's no official definition of virginity, and it doesn't matter except perhaps to certain fundamentalist sects. Oeople in developed countries marrying in their mid-twenties or later. Very few people are willing to abstain for ten years or more after puberty.
So what’s the ideal age to break my virginity?
Kissing can’t be breaking virginity. Masturbating can’t either.
How do you know he's your boyfriend, if you are a virgin and haven't had sex with him yet
If that's the case, then i have LOTS AND LOTS of girlfriends
since im a virgin too
I know he had to put that ring on my finger by now
Two years? I'd be in a psychiatric hospital bye now.
Foreplay. I mean it's kinda bullshit he doesn't get the ultimate prize, but a striptease and handjob would suffice.
Lolllllllll
I reckon you can see each other naked. I like what many others said as well.
Nah a bit too lame
I’ve read that romantic relationships sans sex may include, for example, holding hands, cuddling, hugging, kissing, giving massages, or sharing a bed, without sexual intercourse or other sexual expression. I think sexual expression can be done.
We don’t share beds
You can sleep over, like I did with my siblings at two friends’ flat.
We live with our parents
So did we.
1. sit on his lap
2. cuddle with him
3. Take naps with him
4. dry humping
If an orgasm is what you want, there are plenty of ways to do it together without sex.
But how?
Ever heard of dry humping? It's what my ex and I did all the time.
Hmmm nice
You're friendzoned, kiddo.
Shut up
Umm.. You're 22 already. Just have sex.
Are you sure?
You've been with the guy for 2 years, what are you waiting for? I could understand if you think he's not a good guy and screwing around with other girls. Unless he's a religious freak, he's not going to wait around forever. There is nothing wrong with having sex with your boyfriend. You're not going to hell for it or some silly shit like that
Would you be willing to have oral sex?
I don’t think so
I’ve never thought of this
No we have never gone to each other’s place
We only go to restaurants to eat and then he drops me back home
I want this so bad but what if he thinks I’m being a hoe? I’m not this kind of girl
good luck with that lol
Any tip? How to tell him?
Do you spoon?
Well then just cuddle for now
Check your pm
Then you should oral sex
You can’t
But why?
Because that’s not possible
You can. Do what others say.
Why not possible?
You can't.
Why can’t I?
You can.
Asian?
Don't bother
What do you mean?
I’ve to wait for 10 years more💔
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