What affects can being called stupid/dumb every single day, multiple time a day, have on a person?

[Anonymous]

My sister calls me dumb everyday and even accuses me of something I didn't do.

[SteveSmith1985]

Your sister sounds toxic and emotionally abusive. You're an adult now. Have an adult conversation. If she doesn't "get it" then you should cut her out of your life.

This problem is excusable between sisters when they're children. At this point, it's inappropriate and hurtful. Make her understand that it's not acceptable to treat you that way. If not, cut her out of your life. It's absurd to put up with that as an adult.🙂

[fred_durst]

that sounds bad , i will completely cut her out of my life

[20yearsolder]

You're between the age of 25 and 29. Why the fuck do you let her opinion bother you? Are you stupid? Are you dumb? If the answer is no then tell her to go fuck herself. She's nothing but a dumb cunt. Evidently she's jealous of you and is trying to hold you down.

[Pyrofox]

I mean if its getting super toxic at a certain point a witty come back would be. Okay thanks smart a$$. More realistically I'd say just politely explain to her that her insults and accusations that are clearly false is making you lose respect for her. And if she can't treat you nicely then just don't talk to you period. There is a famous wise phrase that is quote "If you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything." That is great for those who are mentally still "children."

[Sandeeppingping]

Stop talking to her, in terms of what it affects, it affects your personality greatly, how confident and not delusional someone is is 100% related to your belief in your ability to do or be something, if you're dumb then you're incompetent then you'll have a far tougher time being confident and trusting your own judgement and saying what you actually genuinely think

[RolandCuthbert]

It will lower your self-esteem and confidence. Don't listen to the trolls who tell you to develop a thicker skin. Get around people who will nourish your spirit.

[FilmGuy93]

If you repeat the same lie often enough, eventually people will believe it to be true.

[MrTaboo]

The brain can't tell between jokes or real. So it begins to believe it. Many studies on human brain behavior

[Anonymous]

I'd say that depends on how much they believe it. If someone calls me stupid then I typically just show them really how stupid I can be. 🤣

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Sounds like your sister is just a bully.

[Philyouup]

she is toxic. time to quite her.

[Guy13]

What now?

[Guy13]

Your sister does that... why? My two never did that although I did dumb things !!

[Asker]

Yes she does it. And I don't know why like ever since I was a kid she treats me like shit

[Guy13]

Wow... strange for sure. Unnecessary!!!

[Asker]

And by the way she is much older than me and much richer. And Im poorer and she has everything yet she treats me like that when she should be much happier in her life she has everything I dont have.

[Guy13]

I don’t know. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Make a counselor can tell you? Hope it changes for you.