What would you do that only looking for long-term relationships and nothing will get into my way?

Yes, I am looking for long-term relationships and nothing will get into it that way. If I can't find any single guys in real since most of my limited to them already have girlfriends that I met that guy in real. Tried online dating. Some were missing. Others were OK. I can be shy , I don't like loud noise. Like video games, technology and I know some men will use me and other men will not use me. I only experience more bad relationships than I did good relationships. by the way facebook does have a dating site. I am only attracted to men.
What would you do that only looking for long-term relationships and nothing will get into my way?
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