I'm in an awkward situation in my relationship, it's by no means a problem, it just feels weird.
There are 3 girls in our social group that my boyfriend has had a "romantic" (for lack of a better word) connection with. These 3 girls we spend a lot of time with along side our other friends & I've become quite good friends with the girls.
Girl C is my bfs best friend, they have known each other for years & have been there for each other through hard times. When he was in highschool about 6 years ago or so, he "fell in love" with her, & even wanted to "save himself" for her he eventually told her that he liked her & she rejected him, telling him that she only sees him as a brother. They are still best friends today & she is happy & in a committed relationship with someone else. My boyfriend says he still loves her but not in that way anymore. I went to collage with girl C & she introduced me to my boyfriend, she's a great girl and I really like her.
Girl A is a girl my boyfriend met a few years ago & had a crush on but nothing came of it because she had a boyfriend at the time, she's now in a new relationship with one of my good friends. I only met her recently but she's pretty cool and I enjoy her company.
Girl M & my boyfriend briefly had an online relationship. she's a lesbian but at the time her & my boyfriend were both very lonely so they decided to date each other long distance, they had an agreement to break it off if either of them found someone, it lasted about 2 months then he broke things off because of me. Their relationship consisted of flirting & sexting but no pictures were exchanged. I became pretty good friends with this girl and talk to her often.
Finally there's me, my boyfriend & I have been togther for a year but know each other for 3, he had a crush on me when we met but I was dating someone else at the time.
I'm confident in my relationship & don't see the other girls as a threat, I like them but it feels weird knowing what I know about them.
There are 3 girls in our social group that my boyfriend has had a "romantic" (for lack of a better word) connection with. These 3 girls we spend a lot of time with along side our other friends & I've become quite good friends with the girls.
Girl C is my bfs best friend, they have known each other for years & have been there for each other through hard times. When he was in highschool about 6 years ago or so, he "fell in love" with her, & even wanted to "save himself" for her he eventually told her that he liked her & she rejected him, telling him that she only sees him as a brother. They are still best friends today & she is happy & in a committed relationship with someone else. My boyfriend says he still loves her but not in that way anymore. I went to collage with girl C & she introduced me to my boyfriend, she's a great girl and I really like her.
Girl A is a girl my boyfriend met a few years ago & had a crush on but nothing came of it because she had a boyfriend at the time, she's now in a new relationship with one of my good friends. I only met her recently but she's pretty cool and I enjoy her company.
Girl M & my boyfriend briefly had an online relationship. she's a lesbian but at the time her & my boyfriend were both very lonely so they decided to date each other long distance, they had an agreement to break it off if either of them found someone, it lasted about 2 months then he broke things off because of me. Their relationship consisted of flirting & sexting but no pictures were exchanged. I became pretty good friends with this girl and talk to her often.
Finally there's me, my boyfriend & I have been togther for a year but know each other for 3, he had a crush on me when we met but I was dating someone else at the time.
I'm confident in my relationship & don't see the other girls as a threat, I like them but it feels weird knowing what I know about them.
