What would you do to help 18-19 old girls to see they should give incels a chance and try to date them?

[Anonymous]

Its very likely the girls would love the incels once they get to know them, and unlike what some people belive, all incels don't hate women.

[Curmudgeon]

Honestly? The InCels should try going Cougar Dating, that is, looking at older divorcees, and the specific dating sites that cater to that. No, the relationship will not last, but the InCel gets that badly needed experience, the Cougar "gets her groove back" and gets to feel young again. Win-win. Moreover, the lack of experience and awkwardness on the part of the InCel is actually often endearing to the Cougar.

[Curmudgeon]

"Okay, if we instead say not an incel but a average great guy around 27-28 years old. What would you suggest he does to attract 18-19 old girls if he always gets rejected by them?"

I take it this is you at 25-29? Then seek the later 30 something and 40 something divorcee women. And they do abound.

But they are not the nubile 18-19 year olds you want? Well, sorry, you don't have the experience and the confidence that those nubile ones want - after all, you are in InCel!

But you want the love of a lifetime? Well, sorry AGAIN, you don't have the self-awareness experience and the confidence that those soulmate seekers want - YET. After all, you are in InCel!

Remember, this is you gaining experience, and so YES, you are just hooking up for the time being. This is about gaining experience, becoming comfortable in your sexual body, and becoming comfortable interacting with women. This is your starting point, (and in the case of the older divorcee, her recovery point). Help each other out, win-win.

[Anonymous]

Instead of putting this on us, why not encourage the incels to better themselves? Most of them can’t get a girl because they are socially awkward and don’t know how to foster relationships. That’s not our fault. If your personality has led to zero success in your love life, then you might want to consider making changes that will make you more relatable and desirable to the opposite sex. Hoping for pity is not a reasonable strategy. You have to make it happen for yourself.

[Agape93]

Why the absolute hell would I encourage them to get with people who tend to hate women, hurt them, wish them harm or blame them?

They can date who they want. If an incel doesn't meet her requirements, then tough shit.

[Asker]

Its only a small subset who hate women. Most of them actually loves women and would not hurt them or wish harm upon them. The idea that all incels hates women are lies.

As for why you should, so they would actually consider hearing the guy out instead of noping out right away.

[Agape93]

Small subset but still enough to be a valid concern here. If you get 10,000 guys in a stadium with1,000 hating women , and tell 100 women to hook up with the men at random, there's a not insignificant chance thay they'll run into one that hates them.

What's there's to consider hearing out? They can't get their dicks wet? They want a relationship? Welcome to the rest of the world. We want to be safe going out at night, we want to feel like we can trust those around us to not hurt us, but that isn't the world we live in

[Asker]

Okay, if we instead say not an incel but a average great guy around 27-28 years old. What would you suggest he does to attract 18-19 old girls if he always gets rejected by them?

[Agape93]

Aim for ones that aren't in High-school still or fresh from it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing.

Most celibate people are celibate because they are single, not because they are asexual, so 99.9% of single adults are "incels", and most of them eventually get dates just fine.

People don't pick people based on experience, they pick them based on looks, common interests/hobbies, and age groups.

[Billlewis]

I read a comment from young woman who said that she's practically obsessed with wanting to tease incels and drive them crazy... lol. I think that's hot as hell!

[Twalli]

All incels hate women, all people who are involuntarily celibate and haven't gotten a date should be given a chance, but you can't be an incel and not hate women.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Incel stands for involuntarily celibate. They are not separate things, and hate isn't part of the description.

[Twalli]

@TheSpaceGnome it did, but it's a subsection of men now. It used to apply to both genders. It was started by a woman, but eventually she got a boyfriend and left it. It evolved into a group of woman hating bitter guys. I was involuntarily celibate until I was 27 (and voluntarily celibate for 6 months after that), but I was never an incel. I never hated women, I knew I was partly responsible for my lack of physical intimacy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, it still means what it originally meant, I'm not validating people who use words wrong.

[Twalli]

@TheSpaceGnome words don't keep the same meaning throughout time.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most people don't eat healthy either.

I'm not interested in following.

[jshm2]

Pepper spray, mainly.

Incels and Femcels are scum, until they change their attitudes

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

18-19 year olds, tend to fall for the wrong people, because it becomes cliche for them to

They always fall for their "RA" or something in college. ITS CLICHE, girls, STOP

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Show them the male suicide rate, unfairness of males on online dating sites, literally make them see how men have to work out dating life

[Zolly99999]

First thing is incel's need to adjust their attitude.. anyone can get a date if they are realistic and actually put some real effort in.

[ChefPapiChulo]

some incels are unlovabel