How do you feel about dating someone who was in a friends with benefits relationship?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to this girl but later found out she was in a friends with benefits relationship. The way I found out was a bit dishonest. I saw her with him but she ignored me & tried to cover her face so I wouldn’t recognize her. The friends with benefits relationship has ended now as he has moved away. She’s back trying to get my attention now but I don’t know how I feel about her being in a friends with benefits relationship especially since she’s nearly 30 years old.

[Avicenna]

Well, he behavior toward you should have been an automatic dealbreaker, and I wouldn’t assume she’s telling you the truth.

friends with benefits isn’t a relationship. Someone who does that doesn’t want a relationship. If what you want is an exclusive relationship rather than someone who sleeps around a lot, find a woman who also wants an exclusive relationship.

[LazerBean]

Not a chance.