How would you feel if your friends with benefits left you for a relationship if there were some feelings?

[melloncolliehills]

How would you feel if your friends with benefits left you for a relationship if there were some feelings and it was completely out of the blue? I wouldn't say strong feelings, the kind of affections you would have for someone you had been dating for a few months with some distance in between, and it was exclusive but not serious. You texted regularly though and hung out besides just hooking up, and had been on actual dates before, but didn't want to commit because she would be graduating soon and your work schedule is very busy and hectic.

[OlderAndWiser]

You entered the relationship telling him that you did not want a commitment so he didn't give you a commitment. So you got what you wanted: no commitment.

Now he's pursuing a relationship because he wants more. Too late for you because you can't turn back the clock.

Learn a lesson from the experience: for most people, having sex with the same person on a regular basis usually leads to feelings and if you do that without any sense of commitment, then someone is going to get hurt.

[Guy13]

Oh well is what I would say... we were not exclusive. Fun while it lasted.

[mermaidcancermoon]

Id be ok with it. I've left a few friends with benefits for relationships.

If there were any feelings they shouldve spoke up relatively quickly.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Hurt of course, but you get what you signed up for- sex with no strings. can't be mad for getting what you asked for and nothing more.

[Iron_Man]

I would never be in a friends with benefits they never work out and that’s very bad anyway

[WhitneySnow]

I’d be hurt if that happened to me