What are the signs that your friends with benefits is losing interest in you?

[Anonymous]

I have a girl - I guess she’s an fwb/hookup buddy at this point - who i feel like might be. We used to flirt constantly and sext a lot, went on for a weeks until a brief awkward phase. And we still snap constantly for the past few months but the flirting all went away. Completely. Just about no flirting now even tho we recently sort of hooked up (never happens cuz we’re usually far apart). Its hard to say, because she's the one that hit ME up, and she's been down to make future plans for other things, and so on...

But yeah what are some signs

[georgey20]

Don't bother bro, move on to someone else. Hookups don't stay around for long unless they're trying to figure out if they want to be with you or friends with you. If she's stopping messaging you she is gone and your not hitting that shit again.

[Asker]

Yeah you’re right. She never stopped messaging per we, it’s just the messages changed... like she hit me up too hook up, and she later said she had a crazy amount of fun and I was one of the most respectful guys she’d done things with (there’s a story behind that). But yeah for some reason I just got to thinking about that

[Anonymous]

Ignores you

[lovechantel_]

she already lost interest

[Asker]

Yeah that’s kind of how it feels. I’m gonna not snap her and see what happens... I did this once before and I was wrong ish at the time

[lovechantel_]

you should leave her alone

[Asker]

I mean it feels like we’re friends and I’m not bothering her per se