Have you ever experienced this before?

[Anonymous]

I’m attracted to a smart reliable colleague girl as a future wife and her mentality as well however the biggest issue is I don’t see her beauty attractive or sexy but I’m thinking about her too much. I know her for 3 months and she is flirting with me. Do you think I should take a step with her?

[Grubhub]

Me too, this girl is very friendly. Human Resources. I was told she talks to me in a certain way compared to other guys. Cool girl and the way she looks at me so I ask her old because of her vibes and I was told she’s into guys like me. ( ethnicity wise) she said “ she said I’ll think about it.


Ever since she’s been acting nervous around me around people. She acts normal when we’re alone, accept for the day after I asked her out. She had her head down no eye contact. 😂


Even if she doesn’t like me I still like her. I like her as a person

[Guy13]

This is a good place to be. Go ahead and ask her out. Risk and get resolution. If No then be cool 😎, friendly, and don’t act hurt. Some women Test with a No.-“How bad does he want to be with me.” Want to see how you will behave in workplace. If you will man-up as an adult or child. Ask and remember EVERYTHING is a Test with something under the surface being looked for….
These are the actions of a woman with Standards. Good luck 🍀

[Anonymous]

As long as you like her back, why not?

Just don't rush in for the sake of getting together with someone.

If you're going to take a step with her, make sure your feelings are mutual.

[Avicenna]

Well, only you can decide that. That said, what are your criterion for a wife? Do you have to find your wife beautiful?

[msc545]

If you are not attracted to her this will not wor out Friendzone her.

[Iron_Man]

If you’re like this now what is it going to be like later?

[msc545]

Good point Iron.

[Iron_Man]

@msc545 Thanks