How to win his heart?

[katestar]

How to get out of the friend zone?

[dynamicyandere]

Is there any underlying sexual/romantic tension at all?


If there is, all that’s needed is a nudge in the right direction, some light flirting that is enough to send a message but light enough to be shrugged off if it’s not reciprocated. You can see how he responds.


If there doesn’t seem to be any underlying sexual/romantic tension at all, then it could mean that the chemistry just isn’t there…


OR (this happened to me once) if you had some sort of make over or glow up, that may make him re-assess you. It’ll give you a chance for him to see you in a new light and almost have a 2nd chance at a “first” impression.


There was this one girl that I’ve friend zoned for years and then she completely changed her hair and the way she dressed and that got my attention and I re-assessed her. I decided to give it a shot and we ended up dating for about 3-4 months.


But, in the end, things didn’t work out because the chemistry just wasn’t enough for me to want to stay for the long haul. She was friend-zoned in the first place for a reason, and it had to do more with chemistry than looks.

[katestar]

I knew about chemistry

[katestar]

It's a love story

[dynamicyandere]

If you can sense and feel the chemistry between you two, then you can trust your intuition to know what to do. You’ll know how to win his heart. The answer will be within yourself.

If that chemistry isn’t sensed yet, either you still need to know each other more first, or perhaps there’s an incompatibility somewhere.

[katestar]

Okay. I'll do it. When I see him. I'll do it

[Sevenpointfive]

the easiest way to do this is to kiss him on the cheek. do it more than once in the same meeting

[katestar]

Really? Even if it's my guy friend

[Sevenpointfive]

yes. eventually kiss near his mouth and he'll make a move

[katestar]

Really?

[Sevenpointfive]

yes. if he doesn't make a move then he doesn't want to

[katestar]

Or kiss himself on the cheek

[AddylynnNightingale]

Simply put, you treat him like a love interest and not a friend. You ask him out on a date. Then the ball will be in his park. But if he says no, you'll be stuck in that friend zone forever. If he says yes, congratulations! If he says nothing, it means you weren't being clear enough with your message.

[katestar]

I'll be out of the friend zone

[AddylynnNightingale]

I pray for your success. Nothing risked, nothing gained.

[katestar]

So. You are not helping me?

[AddylynnNightingale]

?
I already tried to help.

On the previous question too.

[katestar]

What is the question?

[AddylynnNightingale]

" How to get my guy friend to Flirt with me? "

[katestar]

Oh. Okay

[Anonymous]

I find posts like this amusing. Girls always had no problem putting their guy friends in the friendzone while they went on to date guys who were complete package asshole. Now the tables are turning and guys are putting girls in the friendzone and they (girls) hate it.

Oh the irony is hilarious

[katestar]

Really?

[Guy13]

You can not. You need to understand that it is actually the F🖕U Zone. Anyone that lands there have been discarded in the garage 🗑can of relationships

[katestar]

What are you talking about?

[Guy13]

There is no such thing as Friendzone. He/she told individual to F-off and go away as he/she has no girlfriend or boyfriend potential. It is not a compliment to be friendzoned. There is no such thing as a friendzone. That's where the people we want to avoid are placed. Is that clearer?

[katestar]

Oh. OKAY. I get it now. Crystal clear

[Guy13]

Cool... I was trying to be delicate and I hope you can see that now. It is like the left needed a name to place those were were rejected in some way. Kind of like a Misfit Toys Island Christmas cartoon. :-)

[Iron_Man]

That’s extremely difficult you’re already friends if he was interested in you, you would know already