Ok so there is this girl that I’ve known for while we actually meet at supernova ‘ Supernova is where lots of people dress up as their favourite character and go to a event and have fun and meet people’ I added her on Instagram but after that we didn’t talk for a while but just last weekend it was comic-con ‘ for those who don’t know what that is it’s exactly like supernova’ I asked her if she was going, she was unsure at the time but the day before it was on told me that she was going. I got really excited and it turns out that we were wearing exactly the same character costume she agreed that we looked so cool. We even got some photos of each other by ourselves and some with other people and even did some funny photos and videos that both laughed our ass off. She caught me dancing all goofy like but I didn’t care because I was having so much fun and she was recording me and I could hear her laughing which made me happy. After that day we left and we split off and went home afterwards, we kept chatting afterwards and she even asked me if I got home safe I was surprised and shocked because nobody has said that to me before 😲 I told her I got home safe and she told me that she got home safe and I posted the photos and videos including the funny ones and I tagged her In it and she commented with 3 red hearts on it and when we texted she would love heart my texts and we still chat on Insta and Snapchat. I’m so confused does she want me to ask her out or something or is she trying to be friendly or yet is she like this to her other friends? 🤷🏽♂️ I really need some advice on what I should do? But yet again I don’t wanna lose a good relationship we currently have 🤷🏽♂️ Please help I’m a guy I’m clueless
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That’s a very good point my friend.
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From what you described, she’s clearly comfortable with you and there are signs of interest like consistent chatting, checking if you got home safe, heart reactions, and laughing together in person.
But none of that is a guaranteed “she wants you to ask her out,” it could still be friendly, so you don’t want to over-interpret it and rush.
The best move is to keep talking normally and then suggest something simple like hanging out again outside of events, and see if she makes effort to continue it too.
Just ask her out and get the answer you seek.
There’s one down side of that. I’m really Shy 🫣
Then just wait while the women you like date and marry other men, while you wait and wait and finally settle for someone unpleasant and unattractive.
Just ask her to lunch or whatever. So what if she declines? You aren't dating her now and you still won't be dating her. But you'll find out that being turned down is no big deal. There's more pretty girls than one.